Is a mirror over the bed a red flag?

[Anonymous]

A red flag for what?? What exactly are you concerned about? Poor taste? His appearance and the overall look of his living quarters should give you a more complete idea whether your tastes are compatible.
That he's sexually adventurous? That he likes sex enough to have props that may make it more fun? That's only a problem if you're too prudish for that.

If I ran into that, I'd be amused and would teasingly ask if the place came like that or he put it in cause he likes to watch...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A red flag for what?? What exactly are you concerned about? Poor taste? His appearance and the overall look of his living quarters should give you a more complete idea whether your tastes are compatible.
That he's sexually adventurous? That he likes sex enough to have props that may make it more fun? That's only a problem if you're too prudish for that.

If I ran into that, I'd be amused and would teasingly ask if the place came like that or he put it in cause he likes to watch...

I would be wondering how many other women have been in the mirror. Eew.

[Anonymous]

I would think that he must be handy ?

[Anonymous]

Just stick with doggie and you won't notice it.

[Anonymous]

Oh jeez, OP, live a little... sounds like your attitude is the red flag.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A red flag for what?? What exactly are you concerned about? Poor taste? His appearance and the overall look of his living quarters should give you a more complete idea whether your tastes are compatible.
That he's sexually adventurous? That he likes sex enough to have props that may make it more fun? That's only a problem if you're too prudish for that.

If I ran into that, I'd be amused and would teasingly ask if the place came like that or he put it in cause he likes to watch...

I would be wondering how many other women have been in the mirror. Eew.

Tell us, dear prudence, what is your # ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you were dating a guy (no sex yet) and saw that he has a mirror mounted over his bed, what would you think?

Well you are not dating him if you have not had sex. You should not worry about dating or having sex with this guy, he is sexually out of your league.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you were dating a guy (no sex yet) and saw that he has a mirror mounted over his bed, what would you think?

Well you are not dating him if you have not had sex. You should not worry about dating or having sex with this guy, he is sexually out of your league.

Go away. Ridiculous comment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If you were dating a guy (no sex yet) and saw that he has a mirror mounted over his bed, what would you think?

Well you are not dating him if you have not had sex. You should not worry about dating or having sex with this guy, he is sexually out of your league.

He is in the pro sleaze balls league. Run.

[Anonymous]

I bet he has a drawer full of sticky toys too. Classy.

[Anonymous]

Ehh. Not my kink. Now that I think about it, it's a turn off. I would be concerned about hidden cameras more than anything else. If you really like and trust him, try and make it work. Maybe cover the mirror until you get more comfortable?

[Anonymous]

I agree that it's cheesy. Which is really too bad because I imagine it's a lot of fun.

-A dude

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Like above the headboard? Might be weird. Mounted on the ceiling? GTFO.

Look for the Symbian in the closet or basement

Decide if that is what you want

X2. Get ready for some freaky-deaky.

[Anonymous]

Do you keep your eyes shut during sex and lights off? What's the issue with a mirror? Red flag for what?

[Anonymous]

A guy I used to hook up with at UMD had a mirror next to his bed. His nickname was “Vulture”.