What is cheating?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What would you consider cheating?

Significant Other (SO) reading porn? NO
SO watching porn pretaped video NO
SO watching porn online live MAYBE. Have you talked about this? if so, this could be in the yesses
SO watching porn online and verbally interacting with the person being filmed YES. Like going to a prostitute
SO doing what the person online video was asking him to do/watching what SO does DEFINITELY

I agree with this except for the third. I don’t think it is “cheating” but I think I’d start to get uncomfortable at that point. I’d tell my SO I was t comfortable with it and would hope he would stop based on that. I wouldn’t necessarily be angry he did it unless we had already discussed it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, I meant that the women he is interacting with online knows where the fiance lives and his name.
The Fiance is straight by all accounts and into females.

Yikes, again stunningly bad judgement about protecting yourself online and definitely over the cheating line boundary when you have that level of personal contact.

[Anonymous]

I think the last two would be veering into dangerous territory for me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The only thing you've mentioned that comes even close is the last line- SO being watched/filmed is definitely inappropriate behavior.

Yah, I just posted above you and have to agree.

What person thinks watching porn is cheating?!!

My wife....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The only thing you've mentioned that comes even close is the last line- SO being watched/filmed is definitely inappropriate behavior.

Yah, I just posted above you and have to agree.

What person thinks watching porn is cheating?!!

Women dealing with impotent men due to too much porn usage.

+100

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The only thing you've mentioned that comes even close is the last line- SO being watched/filmed is definitely inappropriate behavior.

Yah, I just posted above you and have to agree.

What person thinks watching porn is cheating?!!

Women dealing with impotent men due to too much porn usage.

+100

Women dealing with men who want women to re-enact porn scenes as part of their sex life or men whose sexual demands become increasingly aggressive, and fetishistic due to increasing habituation to and overuse of porn.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The only thing you've mentioned that comes even close is the last line- SO being watched/filmed is definitely inappropriate behavior.

Yah, I just posted above you and have to agree.

What person thinks watching porn is cheating?!!

Women dealing with impotent men due to too much porn usage.

+100

Women dealing with men who want women to re-enact porn scenes as part of their sex life or men whose sexual demands become increasingly aggressive, and fetishistic due to increasing habituation to and overuse of porn.

This.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:What would you consider cheating?

Significant Other (SO) reading porn? NO
SO watching porn pretaped video NO
SO watching porn online live MAYBE. Have you talked about this? if so, this could be in the yesses
SO watching porn online and verbally interacting with the person being filmed YES. Like going to a prostitute
SO doing what the person online video was asking him to do/watching what SO does DEFINITELY

I agree with this except for the third. I don’t think it is “cheating” but I think I’d start to get uncomfortable at that point. I’d tell my SO I was t comfortable with it and would hope he would stop based on that. I wouldn’t necessarily be angry he did it unless we had already discussed it.

That's why I put it at a maybe. But if they'd discussed this before as something she was uncomfortable with, and he chose to do it anyway? Not cool.

[Anonymous]

The real issue is talk your sister out of this marriage tonight!!