You forgot Cis-gendered. |
| For every herd of sheep there is a fox out there - under the radar and doing things their own way at a state university. Education will be paid for, they will have a resume full of scholarships and paid internships from graduating at the top of their class and grad schools will fight - and even pay- for them to attend - even if mom and dad can afford it. I almost feel a little guilty writing this, because there are a lot of foxes out there scooping up all the jobs while the sheep scratch their heads and wondering what happened - looking for yet another hand out from mom and dad. |
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https://www.getnugget.co/excellent-sheep-summary/
This is a little easier synopsis than the 1 hour video. |
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Sheep go to UVA
World changers and dreamers go to U.MD |
I’m. It sure you understand how grad school funding works. |
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Amusing the responses on this thread. There are degrees of being a sheep. Not going to an Ivy and making boatloads of money is not exactly rebelling, is it now????? |
Give it a rest. |
There's something to this. My working class parents pushed me to excel academically and wanted me to go to the best schools. I want my daughter to be happy and creative even if that means lesser achievement. But although I say that and mean it, I am also sort of assuming that while "being happy" she will also be reasonably successful and paid an adequate amount at a nice job she enjoys. It will be interesting to see how she turns out, and what she chooses for her own children if she has any. |
But your kid is 11. So easy to say this now... |
| He spoke to a small group of students at Yale about 3 years ago. Accounts from students who were present described a low key, somewhat awkward, Q&A in which Deresiewicz expressed views far more moderate when confronted with concrete examples of how students should conduct themselves in their studies, careers, etc. |
| There's a lot of money to be made in peddling books about mediocrity to the masses. |