What does it mean when a man says...

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I don't understand the question. It makes no sense, grammatically.

Do you just kiss and then he says he's emotionally fulfilled?

Does he say it while you kiss? Or after?

What does the "and intimacy" bit mean? Does he say he enjoys emotional intimacy?

Are you having sex, and then he says he feels emotionally fulfilled?


For whatever reason, there's a segment of DCUM users who use the word "intimacy" to refer to sex. It's odd, but it is what it is.
Anonymous
OP here, to answer your questions:
I’m female
He’s not in politics
I posted a few weeks ago about him saying that the passion with md was freeking him out and that he had never felt it with anyone else.
We’re both in our forties
We haven’t said ILV and I don’t think we’re at that stage yet
Anonymous
It means he read an issue or Cosmo somewhere in the last decade or so and filed it away under "stuff to tell women"
Anonymous
He's gay
Anonymous
Women overcomplicate everything.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Women overcomplicate everything.


True.

OP, it's just sh*t he says. Good for him.
Anonymous
Kissing can be a very intimate experience. It's a compliment. I've kissed many people and felt nothing. The first time I kissed my husband, we were both in shock afterwards, because of the intensity of it. After all these years, we both still feel the same thing.
Anonymous
Run you do not want a feminist male. If you marry him he will be a SAHD and you will work your ass off. All your female friends will laugh at you behind your back.
Anonymous
He loves you but doesn't want to say it
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Women overcomplicate everything.


True.

OP, it's just sh*t he says. Good for him.


it's called "open the legs with your tongue"
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:That he loves you and enjoys the emotional connection that accompanies these activities. But he sounds more into it than you do.


I love you is one of those things where unless he SAYS it, don’t assume it. This could be his way of saying sex is great, but until he says those theee little words you’re not there yet.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP here, to answer your questions:
I’m female
He’s not in politics
I posted a few weeks ago about him saying that the passion with md was freeking him out and that he had never felt it with anyone else.
We’re both in our forties
We haven’t said ILV and I don’t think we’re at that stage yet


He sounds weird! I remember your post. If it’s this confusing when you’re dating can you imagine trying to translate his feelings the rest of your life??? NEXT!
Anonymous
He sounds like a neutered beta to me.
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