How old were you when you met/became serious with your spouse?

Anonymous
31, he was 32.
Anonymous
Met and got married at 23.
Anonymous
Met when we were both 26, move in together when we were 28, got engaged at 29, married when we were 30, first baby at 35.
Anonymous

20, when I moved from Europe to the US to live with him.

My parents were SO not happy.
Anonymous
Met at 29 (me) and 32 (him). Were serious right away and married the next year. I'm glad I met him later as I was very immature in my early/mid twenties, definitely wasn't ready to settle down (even though I desperately wanted to).
Anonymous
We met when we were 18, started dating at 19, got engaged at 27, and married at 28.
Anonymous
Met at 20. Started seriously dating at 24. Married at 27.
Anonymous
Met at 23, but we didn't date. Started dating at 27...became seriously really quickly (like within weeks).

But DH claims to this day that he decided he would marry me the day he met me.
Anonymous
^^PP again. We married at 31. (We are less than 3 weeks apart in age.)
Anonymous
I was 30 DW was 25
Anonymous
Met at 23 started dating at 26, married at 27 and still very happy 30 years later.
Anonymous
Met at 28. Married at 31.

This was ideal for me. Dated plenty, traveled solo and with friends, built strong friendships I have to this day, focused on school/career, and had an all around awesome life. When I met my DH, I wasn’t at all looking to have a serious boyfriend. But he was so great, that I gave in and married him.

However old you are, I think it’s important to come from a place of strength and confidence in who you are without a partner when you meet the person you marry. That comes at different points for everyone.
Anonymous
Met at 30, serious in 6 months, married at 33. 40 now and very happy!
Anonymous
Met and started dating seriously at 21. Moved in together and got a dog at 23.
Anonymous
Started dating at 20, married at 26, now 38
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