When did this name calling start? Do you name call back? Are you all about make up sex?
If so you're immature and like drama. I suggest you really examine how you want to live. Otherwise you will be in this same place 5-10 years from now. |
OP, I think you need to get counsel from a neutral, mature outside person so they can help you see what a messed-up situation you're in.
You've come to think it's normal to be called names. You're letting him define you. You're accepting that he doesn't care about the kids and has no empathy. None of these things are normal or healthy. |
He can stop using the word today. None of the men I deigned to spend time with has ever used that word in my presence. |
A chicken and an egg. Depends on who you ask. |