Open marriage and on the prowl

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband and I have an open marriage and I'm ready to start looking for guys to hook up with. Does anyone happen to know if there's a forum for people in open marriages who might want to hook up? I'm interested in going out with people who have an understanding of the situation.

Hi OP, how YOU doin'?

[Anonymous]

OKCupid and Tinder are your best bets.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OKCupid and Tinder are your best bets.

Also a new app call Feeld which is designed for open couples and the single people who like them

How old are you OP?

[Anonymous]

Haven't heard of Feeld...as a bull or a third...thanks for this.

Reddit has been good to me FWIW. Post in the hotwife forum and you'll find someone...I promise

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Haven't heard of Feeld...as a bull or a third...thanks for this.

Reddit has been good to me FWIW. Post in the hotwife forum and you'll find someone...I promise

Seconded on Reddit. Found so many great wives looking for a bull or third on the hotwife forum in my single days

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OKCupid and Tinder are your best bets.

Also a new app call Feeld which is designed for open couples and the single people who like them

How old are you OP?

OP here: I'm 43. And a couple of folks have asked what's my ideal lover. Well, hot, of course. And good in bed. But I'd also like someone who's interesting to talk to, funny and kind. I don't want some jerk who just wants to get laid and that's it. That's where it gets tricky I think. I do want some sort of connection with this person. Just not a serious relationship, obviously.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OKCupid and Tinder are your best bets.

Also a new app call Feeld which is designed for open couples and the single people who like them

How old are you OP?

OP here: I'm 43. And a couple of folks have asked what's my ideal lover. Well, hot, of course. And good in bed. But I'd also like someone who's interesting to talk to, funny and kind. I don't want some jerk who just wants to get laid and that's it. That's where it gets tricky I think. I do want some sort of connection with this person. Just not a serious relationship, obviously.

What are your interests OP? Social? Like going out? Hobbies? I'm an extrovert and social. Love doing new things all of the time. I like theater, outdoors, gym.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why not just meet someone that you have chemistry with insted of hoping you'll find someone online?

How long has it been since you've been with someone besides your dh?

Not OP but my best friend is in an open marriage. You'd be surprised by the number of quality guys who have no interest in sleeping with someone who is married, even if it is an open marriage. And my friend believes in full disclosure. Online works the best

How come the high quality ones won't sleep with an open marriage girl? and are you suggesting op look online for low quality guys who would sleep with her?

Because high quality guys are looking for marriages or long term relationships? It's high quality not to be just looking for sex or avoiding commitment.

[Anonymous]

So trashy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why not just meet someone that you have chemistry with insted of hoping you'll find someone online?

How long has it been since you've been with someone besides your dh?

Not OP but my best friend is in an open marriage. You'd be surprised by the number of quality guys who have no interest in sleeping with someone who is married, even if it is an open marriage. And my friend believes in full disclosure. Online works the best

How come the high quality ones won't sleep with an open marriage girl? and are you suggesting op look online for low quality guys who would sleep with her?

Because high quality guys are looking for marriages or long term relationships? It's high quality not to be just looking for sex or avoiding commitment.

Not true, maybe people like me or just in a place where they're out of a long relationship or just not looking for one currently. This kind of arrangement is better than sleeping around with a bunch of random women.

[Anonymous]

Good for you OP! My husband and I have dabbled in the concept of an open marriage, I used Tinder and went on a couple of dates with people who were familiar with polyamory and experienced with open relationships, they introduced me to more resources in the community like poly Facebook groups etc. Being upfront on my Tinder profile started conversations and attracted those types of people, as well as some other nice guys, like divorced dads who needed something a little more low key, and of course a few guys just looking for casual sex, but that's not really my thing.

[Anonymous]

PP again, there are also clubs around some of our poly friends have gone to and there are lots of online resources, I recommend the podcast poly weekly too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Good for you OP! My husband and I have dabbled in the concept of an open marriage, I used Tinder and went on a couple of dates with people who were familiar with polyamory and experienced with open relationships, they introduced me to more resources in the community like poly Facebook groups etc. Being upfront on my Tinder profile started conversations and attracted those types of people, as well as some other nice guys, like divorced dads who needed something a little more low key, and of course a few guys just looking for casual sex, but that's not really my thing.

Were you ever able to meet someone who just knocked your sox off in bed? If so, were you able to maintain a regular thing with them?

[Anonymous]

Funny that you have to ask, on an anonymous public forum from people you don't even know, how to fu@k around. Pathetic

[Anonymous]

OP, OKC got on it.