Struggling with being in a committed relationship

[Anonymous]

I am a female Gemini. I have bad news for you: we are very fickle. Committed relationships are hard. BTDT.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half and I'm tempted to talk/hang out with other guys. I enjoyed being single, but thought being in my early 30's it was time to settle down.

Boyfriend is a true Aquarius and I a Gemini which does work out, but his negative traits are getting the best of me; unemotional, sometimes distant bla bla. While in most cases this works out for me, but at the same time I'm use to having more than one guy show me "attention".

I'm in love with my boyfriend and think he is the one, but I'm struggling with getting over the old me.

Anyone been through a similar situation? No I don't want to hurt him as I heard through the grape vine that he would like my hand in marriage.

Signed,

Confused

Do you also miss being able to sleep with other guys? It seems like this would be a big one too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half and I'm tempted to talk/hang out with other guys. I enjoyed being single, but thought being in my early 30's it was time to settle down.

Boyfriend is a true Aquarius and I a Gemini which does work out, but his negative traits are getting the best of me; unemotional, sometimes distant bla bla. While in most cases this works out for me, but at the same time I'm use to having more than one guy show me "attention".

I'm in love with my boyfriend and think he is the one, but I'm struggling with getting over the old me.

Anyone been through a similar situation? No I don't want to hurt him as I heard through the grape vine that he would like my hand in marriage.

Signed,

Confused

Do you also miss being able to sleep with other guys? It seems like this would be a big one too.

Heck no. The attention is more on lines of compliments and nice gestures. While my SO does offer those, I was getting them more often.

[Anonymous]

Sound like a crap gf. Leave him so he can find someone worth while.

[Anonymous]

Promiscuous past makes females less able to pair bond.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half and I'm tempted to talk/hang out with other guys. I enjoyed being single, but thought being in my early 30's it was time to settle down.

Boyfriend is a true Aquarius and I a Gemini which does work out, but his negative traits are getting the best of me; unemotional, sometimes distant bla bla. While in most cases this works out for me, but at the same time I'm use to having more than one guy show me "attention".

I'm in love with my boyfriend and think he is the one, but I'm struggling with getting over the old me.

Anyone been through a similar situation? No I don't want to hurt him as I heard through the grape vine that he would like my hand in marriage.

Signed,

Confused

Do you also miss being able to sleep with other guys? It seems like this would be a big one too.

Heck no. The attention is more on lines of compliments and nice gestures. While my SO does offer those, I was getting them more often.

As you age you will get fewer compliments from men. That's just how it goes.