What unconditional love is and isn't

[Anonymous]

My love for my children is unconditional. No matter what they do I will still love them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My love for my children is unconditional. No matter what they do I will still love them.

Mines not. If i had a Casy Lee Anthony or any other <insert psychopaths name here> I'd cut bait. Yes, it woulf be devestating, but I could not live someone like that, even my own child.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My love for my children is unconditional. No matter what they do I will still love them.

Mines not. If i had a Casy Lee Anthony or any other <insert psychopaths name here> I'd cut bait. Yes, it woulf be devestating, but I could not live someone like that, even my own child.

My love would still be there. Doesn't mean I would like them or want them in my life, ie Casey Anthony, but the love remains forever.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My love for my children is unconditional. No matter what they do I will still love them.

Mines not. If i had a Casy Lee Anthony or any other <insert psychopaths name here> I'd cut bait. Yes, it woulf be devestating, but I could not live someone like that, even my own child.

My love would still be there. Doesn't mean I would like them or want them in my life, ie Casey Anthony, but the love remains forever.

So you can still love someone you no longer want in your life? I call that love of an idea of a person that never was. Love is an active exchange.

Id mourn a REAL LONG time the loss of a child that never was. I'm incapable of loving a psychopath.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My love for my children is unconditional. No matter what they do I will still love them.

Mines not. If i had a Casy Lee Anthony or any other <insert psychopaths name here> I'd cut bait. Yes, it woulf be devestating, but I could not live someone like that, even my own child.

My love would still be there. Doesn't mean I would like them or want them in my life, ie Casey Anthony, but the love remains forever.

So you can still love someone you no longer want in your life? I call that love of an idea of a person that never was. Love is an active exchange.
Id mourn a REAL LONG time the loss of a child that never was. I'm incapable of loving a psychopath.

A child dies, regardless of age, you mourn the loss of that child, and hence the relationship, but your love for that child doesn't die with it. I bonded in love with my children when they were born and while it can be tempered it cannot die or be killed. That is different from liking, respecting, or a desire to interact, with them.