What's up with the "fat fixation"?

Anonymous
Women: don't be fat

#YouHadOneJob
Anonymous
I was thinking the same thing after seeing the posts from yesterday. It must be one very insecure person. I just lost 40 lbs and feel great. But i didn't do it just to look good although it's a benefit obviously. I feel so much better and my doctor told me I had to do it or I'd have to go on medication for the rest of my life. I never felt like my weight defined me as a person. I dated plenty before weight loss and never once worried if I would be able to find a guy who would like me. There is so much that makes me who I am and that's just one part of it.
Anonymous
To all the unhappy and insecure skinny girls posting on here:

"skinny people do not have a boost in endorphins; therefore... they’re not so great in bed."

https://www.google.ca/amp/s/thoughtcatalog.com/amanda-chatel/2015/04/7-different-body-types-that-reflect-how-steamy-your-sex-life-is/amp/
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think there are people whose biggest accomplishment in life, thus far, is being - not overweight.



+1, and sadder still: the ones whose biggest accomplishment is their spouse's weight


+1 from a fit man. Focus on what makes you feel good and perform well. Screw the scale's judgement.
Anonymous
I don't know, it was a little weight-heavy, but I enjoyed the change of pace.

Can we have themed days more often?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Women: don't be fat

#YouHadOneJob



Men: Don't be poor

#YouNeedaHighPayingJob
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Men treat women like trophies and they have to be shinny.

Then they blame women when their aging d*ck goes limp and blame it on their weight.

I am a leg man so I guess a woman has to have shins....

And while some men will blame the women in their life some women do likewise.

As for aging d**ks, I am still wondering when my aging member will start to wane. My wife gives me that look, wraps her arms around me and kisses me the tent is pitched within seconds. She thinks she's fat but I don't.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Men treat women like trophies and they have to be shinny.

Then they blame women when their aging d*ck goes limp and blame it on their weight.

I am a leg man so I guess a woman has to have shins....

And while some men will blame the women in their life some women do likewise.

As for aging d**ks, I am still wondering when my aging member will start to wane. My wife gives me that look, wraps her arms around me and kisses me the tent is pitched within seconds. She thinks she's fat but I don't.


Side bar question: is it typical when guys get erections just for a hug or a look. If so in need to bring my game on.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Men treat women like trophies and they have to be shinny.

Then they blame women when their aging d*ck goes limp and blame it on their weight.

I am a leg man so I guess a woman has to have shins....

And while some men will blame the women in their life some women do likewise.

As for aging d**ks, I am still wondering when my aging member will start to wane. My wife gives me that look, wraps her arms around me and kisses me the tent is pitched within seconds. She thinks she's fat but I don't.


Side bar question: is it typical when guys get erections just for a hug or a look. If so in need to bring my game on.


Depends on the context of the hug. A short hug like you'd give a friend, nah. A long hug, more common between couples, absolutely its possible.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Have you read the relationship forum before?

Every relationship issue is blamed on a woman being fat or not participating in sex often enough.


Do you see where the leading Nazi on some Nazi forum bashed the dead girl in Charlottesville? He called her old and fat and unmarried.
maybe if you're a Nazi, then the worst thing you can call a woman is fat. It seems to be a word that carries an awful lot of power and
appeals to loser men for a lot of reasons.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Men treat women like trophies and they have to be shinny.

Then they blame women when their aging d*ck goes limp and blame it on their weight.

I am a leg man so I guess a woman has to have shins....

And while some men will blame the women in their life some women do likewise.

As for aging d**ks, I am still wondering when my aging member will start to wane. My wife gives me that look, wraps her arms around me and kisses me the tent is pitched within seconds. She thinks she's fat but I don't.

Side bar question: is it typical when guys get erections just for a hug or a look. If so in need to bring my game on.

I can say an absolute hell yes for 99% of them if they are 17. LOL

Now, we aren't talking about a simple hug but rather one that has more added in which is why I mentioned that look and the kiss. As for other men my age, don't know. Just know that she has, and still does, do that for me.

Oh, one more thing, testosterone levels can affect men's ability to respond and for most men as they age that gets lower.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Have you read the relationship forum before?

Every relationship issue is blamed on a woman being fat or not participating in sex often enough.


Frequency of sex and woman's weight are tangible metrics by which all men initiate a relationship.
So when these basic parameters change during a marriage, it destabilizes the entire premise of him being interested in her (romantically).

There aren't ENOUGH threads on these important issues!!
Anonymous
I make about 170K. Does that mean I am poor? Or do I need to make more? I am good in bed, ask my three exes.
Anonymous
I make about 170K. Does that mean I am poor? Or do I need to make more? I am good in bed, ask my three exes.
Anonymous
Fat fixation? Perhaps because there is a national obesity epidemic. We rarely talked about fat people 40 years ago.
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