Question about high sex drive

[Anonymous]

It means you're obviously not a man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Let's say someone was in a relationship where they were in love with and attracted to their partner, and they wanted to have sex with their partner everyday, maybe sometimes more than once a day. For years.

Now let's say that same person is not in a relationship, for years, and does not have sex with any other person because they do not have a sex partner available who they are attracted to and in love with. Without those factors, they don't want to have sex with anyone.

Does this person have a high sex drive or not?

What you are describing isn't about high drive but about control. Just because a person has a high drive it doesn't mean they are driven to want to have sex.

As a man with a very high drive, since puberty and for 50 years hence, I can go a week without an orgasm but it's rare. Sometimes a couple/three a day or at other times that number in a week. Do I want to have sex with someone? Sure, but if it isn't in the cards I am in control.

FWIW, the person that isn't in control and has indiscriminate sex to satisfy their needs, which btw doesn't work, is usually an addict.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You are high drive if always have the same sexual drive.
I'm high drive, I want sex everyday with or without a partner.
Even when I'm sick. Well, minus the one time I was in the hospital, otherwise. EVERY DAY.

I am the Same.

And I don't think the person OP describes is high drive. It sounds like my wife, who was high drive early in the relationship then tapered off to next to nothing. She has responsive desire, and when the object is no longer shiny or new, she doesn't respond. It's normal, but certainly not high drive.