Not my experience, at all. Great education and the women I know are not unpleasant at all. |
And just how in the world would you know who is and who isn't coming out of the closet? And why would they disclose that b to you, a stranger? |
Have you been to these schools? There's a huge difference between Haverford and Colby. You might not have flunked sociology, but you aren't very observant. |
Are you saying the students are similar or the programs they offer? We visited several of these and they each had a unique campus feel and often approach. For example CC has the block program so it has students taking one class at a time and my daughter was very intrigued by that. Grinnell and Hamilton have no core curriculum or required courses, making it easier to double major and focus only on your area of interest. The campus culture of Barnard is totally different at Barnard (connected to Columbia and in Manhattan) than Kenyon (far out Ohio with one restaurant in town) so that alone makes them different. We were looking for schools with great writing departments so my daughter did research on that aspect and I can tell you that some (Hamilton, Barnard and Kenyon) stood out but she ultimately chose another school with an equally great writing program and unique campus culture. So IMO there is a lot of difference in LAC. |
Specifics please. Put up or shut up. |
Well it was the case for one of my two close friends and she talked about it, ok? She also talked about how she sensed she was not the only one facing the dilemma. It was not me "passing judgment" on total strangers, much like you have done here. |
The the OP but I agree that there are substantive differences in the campus cultures at most of these schools. Colby attracts a very outdoorsy, down to earth, UMC student body that's fairly preppy. Haverford attracts a more intensely academic student and has a more intellectual vibe. You really do have to go visit these schools to get a sense of the culture. But as a general rule, the larger the school the more likely you will be to find kindred spirits. Also if the school is near or in a city and in close proximity to other colleges you're going to have a greater chance of plugging into a community that you'll find welcoming. Personally, I think Tufts is a great choice because it's large enough to have a very diverse student body and benefits from its suburban Boston location which provides easy access to loads of off campus opportunities, social and otherwise. |
| They're all the same - just focus on geographical location and size. For ex. You can get a decent education at Grinnell but boy is it in the middle of nowhere. Maybe you're cool with that but I know my kid would just hate it. |
| to say they are all the same is just dumb, very dumb |
o.k., not the same, but verrrry similar is all ways: size of student body, small town locations, white UMC students, liberal, similar class size, curricula. Hard to really see much of a difference in these names except where they're located. |
well the differences are going to come down to the people in my opinion. despite appearances, every professor / lecturer and student is an individual, and that is going to shape your college experience as much as anything. |