Crying after getting dumped

[Anonymous]

I cried when I got dumped - I didn't see it coming. I still crush on the guy and miss him but remind myself he doesn't want me. Life is just cruel sometimes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is why you dump them by phone or email, so you don't have to deal with them blubbering.

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You sound cowardly. Mature emotionally stable adults have a decency to do it in person, it gives people closure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did you ever have an ex girlfriend/boyfriend who cried after you dumped them? If so, what was your response?

Yes I did. I did not want to see that. So, we didn't break up. And we ended up getting married.
I've also been the cryer. But remained broken up because they had a stronger backbone than me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is why you dump them by phone or email, so you don't have to deal with them blubbering.

What a prize.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is why you dump them by phone or email, so you don't have to deal with them blubbering.

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You sound cowardly. Mature emotionally stable adults have a decency to do it in person, it gives people closure.

I'm not dumping them because I want to help them. I don't care if they get closure. If I cared about them, I wouldn't be dumping them. I'm dumping them because I want them out of my life so I can move on with the least pain and aggravation to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is why you dump them by phone or email, so you don't have to deal with them blubbering.

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You sound cowardly. Mature emotionally stable adults have a decency to do it in person, it gives people closure.

I'm not dumping them because I want to help them. I don't care if they get closure. If I cared about them, I wouldn't be dumping them. I'm dumping them because I want them out of my life so I can move on with the least pain and aggravation to me.

God, I wish I'd known you when I tried to do the breakup thing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is why you dump them by phone or email, so you don't have to deal with them blubbering.

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You sound cowardly. Mature emotionally stable adults have a decency to do it in person, it gives people closure.

I'm not dumping them because I want to help them. I don't care if they get closure. If I cared about them, I wouldn't be dumping them. I'm dumping them because I want them out of my life so I can move on with the least pain and aggravation to me.

God, I wish I'd known you when I tried to do the breakup thing.

+1. The crying was the worst part about breaking up with people and it often felt like a tool to manipulate me to stay with them. It seems like something that's far more appropriate for them to do with friends or family.