DH threatened violence

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[Post New]02/26/2017 10:26
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Anonymous
Look, the guy drives a BMW. What do you expect?
[Post New]02/26/2017 10:29
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I think everyone is really overreacting.


+1
[Post New]02/26/2017 10:38
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think everyone is really overreacting.


+1


Agreed. Everyone's not getting any sleep, and at top stress levels. And if you can afford a BMW, you can also afford babysitters.
[Post New]02/26/2017 10:39
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Anonymous
Don't get anyone 'overacting' here. Just like in the long string of posts where there were calls of double standards in reactions to wife wiping toddler's mouth roughly and cursing - this is husband endangering baby in locked car, screaming at an attendant about property that OP says wasn't even damaged, threatening to eviscerate him. All the calls for that husband to leave because then and this is an overreaction? This to me is the definition of my line. To lose it over property and put the child at risk - not to mention his family as he certainly was close to the line if not over of assaulting - again over perceived damage to property. There is no excuse for this and OP should separate herself and her child from this time-bomb until he shows he sees what he did without excusing it and makes changes so that he controls his anger and impulses
[Post New]02/26/2017 11:01
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Anonymous wrote:Sleep deprived.
And why the hell are you all out at 3:30 am with a baby?


Just because she posted at 3:30am doesn't mean that's when it happened.
[Post New]02/26/2017 11:53
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Don't get anyone 'overacting' here. Just like in the long string of posts where there were calls of double standards in reactions to wife wiping toddler's mouth roughly and cursing - this is husband endangering baby in locked car, screaming at an attendant about property that OP says wasn't even damaged, threatening to eviscerate him. All the calls for that husband to leave because then and this is an overreaction? This to me is the definition of my line. To lose it over property and put the child at risk - not to mention his family as he certainly was close to the line if not over of assaulting - again over perceived damage to property. There is no excuse for this and OP should separate herself and her child from this time-bomb until he shows he sees what he did without excusing it and makes changes so that he controls his anger and impulses


You have quite the vivid imagination.
[Post New]02/26/2017 11:57
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Don't get anyone 'overacting' here. Just like in the long string of posts where there were calls of double standards in reactions to wife wiping toddler's mouth roughly and cursing - this is husband endangering baby in locked car, screaming at an attendant about property that OP says wasn't even damaged, threatening to eviscerate him. All the calls for that husband to leave because then and this is an overreaction? This to me is the definition of my line. To lose it over property and put the child at risk - not to mention his family as he certainly was close to the line if not over of assaulting - again over perceived damage to property. There is no excuse for this and OP should separate herself and her child from this time-bomb until he shows he sees what he did without excusing it and makes changes so that he controls his anger and impulses


How was the child at risk? Clearly he shouldn't have done what he did, but everyone is really overreacting.
[Post New]02/26/2017 12:45
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I think everyone is really overreacting.

The only one who overreacted is the asshole husband.
[Post New]02/26/2017 16:01
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Anonymous
It's a BMW, not a million dollar classic or a Ferrari Enzo. BFD!

Your husband is a tool....
[Post New]02/26/2017 16:52
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I think everyone is really overreacting.


Agree. Really, to go from one outburst to "should I plan for the divorce?" I sure hope you've never had an outburst or overreaction in your life. You must be perfect and even tempered at all times.

What he did wasn't right, but your being dramatic and ridiculous.
[Post New]02/26/2017 18:21
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Anonymous
Does your husband realize he behaved atrociously or is he defending his actions?
[Post New]02/26/2017 18:26
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think everyone is really overreacting.


+1


Nah. You are under-reacting. A guy that threatens a total stranger is on his way to taking a swing at total strangers. He is on his way to threatening OP. He'll turn up the heat gradually. He is a person who uses threats of violence to intimidate and control.

If it were my husband, he would go to therapy or I would be moving out.

And if the guy is an abuser, OP might not have known that before marrying him. Lots of abusers are really charming until they get you in a position where you are trapped (like having a new baby), and then they let their real self out.
[Post New]02/26/2017 18:27
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think everyone is really overreacting.


Agree. Really, to go from one outburst to "should I plan for the divorce?" I sure hope you've never had an outburst or overreaction in your life. You must be perfect and even tempered at all times.

What he did wasn't right, but your being dramatic and ridiculous.


He didn't just have outburst. He threatened to stab someone. The guy is off his rocker.
[Post New]02/26/2017 18:34
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think everyone is really overreacting.


Agree. Really, to go from one outburst to "should I plan for the divorce?" I sure hope you've never had an outburst or overreaction in your life. You must be perfect and even tempered at all times.

What he did wasn't right, but your being dramatic and ridiculous.


He didn't just have outburst. He threatened to stab someone. The guy is off his rocker.


Okay. I'm certain you've never told anyone you're going to kill them, then.
[Post New]02/26/2017 18:43
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think everyone is really overreacting.


Agree. Really, to go from one outburst to "should I plan for the divorce?" I sure hope you've never had an outburst or overreaction in your life. You must be perfect and even tempered at all times.

What he did wasn't right, but your being dramatic and ridiculous.


He didn't just have outburst. He threatened to stab someone. The guy is off his rocker.


Okay. I'm certain you've never told anyone you're going to kill them, then.

NP - I've never threatened to kill someone in an angry outburst. That is not normal behavior.
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