Advice on abandonment

[Anonymous]

I'm sure there's a lot more that we're not being told. But you've received some decent advice. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

I went through the exact same thing. Thankfully the 1st thing that I did was looking for mental counseling, because my 2 kids were 2 years old and 3 years old at the time. I was working outside the house mom but my income were not enough to cover for everything. He desaparead too without talking to me first and one day while I was working he went to the house and pick up he belongings. When I came home and saw that none of his clothes were there , that is when I realized he had to have another woman and I need to divorced him, but I didn't have money to pay for a lawyer. So I went to the women's coalition against domestic violence.
They guide me on how to start with all ghe legal process. The 1 thing was with the child support paperwork and process. They helped me filling out the documents to summit to the court for the child support and I after I had that then I started with the divorce process. They referred me a very good and $$ resonable lawyer. I got divorced " by fault of abandonment" he never showed up and I was granted full custody of my kids. We did not have a mortgage or debts so nothing to divide and another jurisdiction about 6 years ago.
After all the pain and suffering that lasted for 2 years, today I look back and I'm thankful for everything, because I was able to look and find for the help that I needed to deal with the anxiety and depression that I was going thru. I may difference from you is that I had my family close.
Dear you need to heal, please look for help there is a LOT of social assistance that you may qualify and if not they can tell you where to go. Today I'm doing way better financially, I was transferred here from work and my kids are super well and we are all happy. There is light at the end of the tunnel.
Good luck and many blessings!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I went through the exact same thing. Thankfully the 1st thing that I did was looking for mental counseling, because my 2 kids were 2 years old and 3 years old at the time. I was working outside the house mom but my income were not enough to cover for everything. He desaparead too without talking to me first and one day while I was working he went to the house and pick up he belongings. When I came home and saw that none of his clothes were there , that is when I realized he had to have another woman and I need to divorced him, but I didn't have money to pay for a lawyer. So I went to the women's coalition against domestic violence.
They guide me on how to start with all ghe legal process. The 1 thing was with the child support paperwork and process. They helped me filling out the documents to summit to the court for the child support and I after I had that then I started with the divorce process. They referred me a very good and $$ resonable lawyer. I got divorced " by fault of abandonment" he never showed up and I was granted full custody of my kids. We did not have a mortgage or debts so nothing to divide and another jurisdiction about 6 years ago.
After all the pain and suffering that lasted for 2 years, today I look back and I'm thankful for everything, because I was able to look and find for the help that I needed to deal with the anxiety and depression that I was going thru. I may difference from you is that I had my family close.
Dear you need to heal, please look for help there is a LOT of social assistance that you may qualify and if not they can tell you where to go. Today I'm doing way better financially, I was transferred here from work and my kids are super well and we are all happy. There is light at the end of the tunnel.
Good luck and many blessings!

Thanks so much I hope that my kids and I will have a happy outcome, too.

[Anonymous]

The Women's Center does divorce workshops. Go find out what you need to know.

http://thewomenscenter.org/education-2/