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If I can get my child play music through childhood I will consider that a tremendous success. The knowledge of music will stay with them, even if they don't make music, they can still enjoy them at a deeper level. Incidentally, piano is a good beginning chioce because you learn more theory with it.
I do hear you in giving the child choice and create a musical environment. Most kids don't hate lessons, they love it in general. What they hate is practice, but to get good at anything. They need some of that. |
This. My daughter started piano in 1st grade and is still playing it in 4th. She enjoys the piano, but I think the big lesson has been the role of practice. She learns most academic things easily -- and in fact learns piano quite easily too, but the idea of practice to build muscle memory in your fingers and improve your skills has been a good lesson. I am sure you can get this lesson through practicing athletic skills, too, but we aren't particularly athletic. FWIW, I started on piano so had her start on piano. I felt it gave me a good foundation, including keyboard theory, that helped as I moved to other instruments. I ended up playing my other instrument through college -- on a music scholarship -- but by high school realized I didn't have the drive to be a professional musician. In addition to knowing and enjoying music, I learned a lot about performing (preparing/practicing, managing anxiety, etc), collaborating with others, etc. |