Drank too much and now embarrassed

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don't apologize to anyone!
Sheesh. If I went out with my friends and my normally shy and retiring friend got tipsy and made out with her DH, I would think it was hilarious and cute.
Now if you had made out with someone ELSE's DH, and then puked in the car, you should apologize.

This!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't apologize to anyone!
Sheesh. If I went out with my friends and my normally shy and retiring friend got tipsy and made out with her DH, I would think it was hilarious and cute.
Now if you had made out with someone ELSE's DH, and then puked in the car, you should apologize.

This!

It's all in the perspective, OP!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't apologize to anyone!
Sheesh. If I went out with my friends and my normally shy and retiring friend got tipsy and made out with her DH, I would think it was hilarious and cute.
Now if you had made out with someone ELSE's DH, and then puked in the car, you should apologize.

This!

+1

[Anonymous]

If I was your friend I would have loved that you let loose. I would also be a tad jealous..DH rarely wants to make out these days.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My hubby and I enjoyed a rare night out to celebrate my birthday and also our anniversary and invited some friends to join us. We had dinner and went to a bar and let's just say I probably had one too many cocktails and made out with my husband like a teenager. While obviously I didn't do anything wrong g and frankly it was great to let loose and enjoy some time with my husband- I am just a little embarrassed to have acted like that in front of my friends and also some family members. Should I apologize to anyone who might have found this pda a bit too public? It's really unlike me to be like that and while it might be normal for others I am just embarrassed
And want to hide behind a rock!!

No, do not apologize as this will only make them talk about longer. You made a fool of yourself because you drank too much. Stop drinking.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My hubby and I enjoyed a rare night out to celebrate my birthday and also our anniversary and invited some friends to join us. We had dinner and went to a bar and let's just say I probably had one too many cocktails and made out with my husband like a teenager. While obviously I didn't do anything wrong g and frankly it was great to let loose and enjoy some time with my husband- I am just a little embarrassed to have acted like that in front of my friends and also some family members. Should I apologize to anyone who might have found this pda a bit too public? It's really unlike me to be like that and while it might be normal for others I am just embarrassed
And want to hide behind a rock!!

No, do not apologize as this will only make them talk about longer. You made a fool of yourself because you drank too much. Stop drinking.

Go away

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thanks guys. I feel better and just hoping nobody thought it was crass or whatever because I was definitely drunk! Which is just out of character for me! I guess we also hadn't been out in a long time without the kids and got carried away. I guess in some ways the silver lining is we still have the hots for each other after 10 years of marriage and two kids. Hopefully the family members are not talking about it behind my back or if so in a joking way!

Hey. I have been in the same situation with a drunk couple who were fighting and screaming at each other. I'd much rather see people sucking face than threatening to punch it. Be happy.

[Anonymous]

OMG no!! You were happy and celebrating and you are in a loving marriage. What is there to apologize for? Shit I've done things while overly intoxicated that are actually embarrassing where you feel regret the next day. Enjoy life!

[Anonymous]

OP, I totally agree with everyone who says it's not something you need to apologize for. If you spend time with these friends often, then they know it was out of character. And if they're good friends, they will allow you one incident of having one too many on your birthday. If you feel the need to say anything, I would wait for a few weeks or a couple of months, invite them out again, in an email that says something like, "Hey Barney and Betty, are you free next Saturday? Fred and I have been wanting to try this restaurant, and it would be fun to double date. I promise to behave! " -Wilma

[Anonymous]

No, don't reference it in any way, even in a joking manner. Just let it go.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Don't apologize to anyone!
Sheesh. If I went out with my friends and my normally shy and retiring friend got tipsy and made out with her DH, I would think it was hilarious and cute.
Now if you had made out with someone ELSE's DH, and then puked in the car, you should apologize.

+100

[Anonymous]

What's the big deal? Sounds like you relaxed and had some fun. If your friends don't like it, maybe they aren't your friends?

[Anonymous]

Op here. Thanks very much to those who tried to make me feel better! Still feeling embarrassed but marginally better! Maybe I'm just being too hard on myself. Hopefully with time I will feel better!

[Anonymous]

It's fine, unless by "like teenagers" you mean you jerked him off or something, or if by "friends" you really mean colleagues.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don't apologize to anyone!
Sheesh. If I went out with my friends and my normally shy and retiring friend got tipsy and made out with her DH, I would think it was hilarious and cute.
Now if you had made out with someone ELSE's DH, and then puked in the car, you should apologize.

This!

+1

+2

I probably would have egged you on, and then been inspired to feel my DH up in the car.