Again, the op of the thread deserved some sympathy and consideration, not a cross-conversation about mismatched lipstick. If you find my posts rough, imagine how op felt in her raw state. People should have started a spin-off, and left op's thread alone if they couldn't muster up some condolences. |
Yeah. Jeff, I dont think you saw, but the woman's mother had died and she was upset about a stranger screaming at her. Of course, people just started viciously attacking her and saying she deserved it. It was pretty awful, even by DCUM standards. I know you probably can't, or dont have time, but it would be awesome if you could go thru that thread and maybe ban some of the people who were really piling it on. There seemed to be one poster in particular who was repeat posting just various abuse at OP. It was sad to watch. |
I was the poster you were having that convo with. It was not a "fun conversation"- you were being awful and judgmental to someone who's mother just died. I was making fun of you for being such a horrible jerk. You need to take a serious look at yourself. I'm not joking. And YOU are the one who needs to get a grip. |
That's a shame. I never would have gone down that road with you if I had known you were being serious. |
Perhaps some sensitivity and seriousness, in light of how upset OP was, and the (very) recent death of her mother, would be appropriate. A lesson learned. |
I was never responding to the OP. I responded to a poster who said anyone mentioning her parking must be some evil person who goes around criticizing women in parking lots for their bad parking jobs. I said, "Not me. I would never say a thing like that -- but I have had fantasies of writing it on windshields with lipstick." Such a minor comment. I cannot believe that the back-and-forth over that admission of a daydream was actually FOR REAL. Now that I know the other poster was being serious, not sarcastic, I think they are a huge asshole, and should go to a psychiatrist to check out their histrionic tendencies, pronto. What a nut. Seriously, not in a million years would I have interpreted that spew as being for real. Wow. |
Of course. It's everyone else's fault, not yours How insane you are, turning this thread into your own tantrum. The OP's mother had died!
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I don't know what in the world you are talking about. I made a harmless comment admitting to daydreams about writing on someone's windshield what that man had actually said to OP. It was two sentences long. The appropriate response to that if you did not agree with it would be to ignore it. Instead you chose to make the entire thread allabout your insistence that people only post what you deem appropriate. Instead of a two sentence post -- one of several not on board with the OP -- lost in many supportive posts it was about your and your opinions -- which, I'm sorry to break it to you, are truly absurd.. Your response to my harmless post was so over the top I thought you were joking. Your response was laughable -- literally laughable. |
I'm not the pp you're responding too, but you really seem to be missing the fact that the op of the thread you posted on had just lost her mother. In that situation, your response was really insensitive. I'm sorry you don't get that, despite multiple people here on this thread explaining that to you. |
My post was two sentences long. It was harmless. You don't get to dictate how people respond to others, and I don't need a lecture on sensitivity from you or the PP who derailed the thread in her insatiable need to force people to feel compassion for the OP. Again, the appropriate response to my post, if you disapproved of it, would have been to ignore it and respond to the posts you approved of. (Which were limited, given the tone of the OP....See below.) I said this already, but I thought the OP was a troll, because her post was absurd. When my own parent died out of the blue, the last thing on my mind would have been writing a 7 paragraph post on DCUM about someone criticizing my parking job. |