How much - if anything - would you give?

[Anonymous]

You've given two gifts, in addition to plenty of additional money and time. You are not obligated to give another gift, but give a small one if you like.

[Anonymous]

Something small, $50-$100 since you've already been very generous.

[Anonymous]

Mental Note - Decline to be in all wedding parties.

[Anonymous]

I would do something very small, a token gift. Maybe something funny and personal, like a kitchen towel with a funny saying on it or whatever your taste may be. $15 range and a card. Done.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would do something very small, a token gift. Maybe something funny and personal, like a kitchen towel with a funny saying on it or whatever your taste may be. $15 range and a card. Done.

This.

[Anonymous]

Nothing, you've done enough and she should be appreciative.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mental Note - Decline to be in all wedding parties.

Right?! I'm the PP from page 1 who was maid of honor twice and a bridesmaid once, and each of those weddings cost me well over $1k. Sometimes it's better to just say no, like Nancy Reagan told us to.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nothing.
But if you feel like you need to do something, max of $60

$60 lol
Better to give nothing.

You are a delight.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nothing.
But if you feel like you need to do something, max of $60

$60 lol
Better to give nothing.

You sound spoiled and pretentious. I hope you received nothing at your wedding. $60 is more than adequate. Gifts are optional anyway, dingaling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would do $250. You still need to give a gift.
Don't be cheap.

What's your HHI? I wouldn't give this much even if I hadn't spent a ton of money on the wedding already...

[Anonymous]

$100

[Anonymous]

You could do a nice, personal card and a token gift. Bride may or may not be offended, but who cares? She is the rude one if she gets offended by it. In retrospect, I don't think any of my bridesmaids bought us a gift, and I made very sure none of them spent anywhere close to what you have.

[Anonymous]

Wow. I had no idea wedding "extras" could be so expensive.
It's ridiculous, OP. Give a heartfelt card and that's it.

[Anonymous]

$50 and call it a day.

[Anonymous]

I personally would feel odd not giving anything but a cute gift set of a mixing bowl & pancake mix came to mind.