Question about work emails

[Anonymous]

Infidelity is no longer considered grounds for divorce. Just leave, file, divide your marital stuff, work out shared custody if you have kids and move on.

[Anonymous]

You're going to end up spending a lot of money making your lawyer subpoena .gov email address emails and then go through them with a fine toothed comb to see if there's proof infidelity occurred. Come on, dude. Don't do it to yourself. Just divorce if you're certain he's cheating and it's come to this and you're filing anyway.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Does it really matter why its important or what it will do for me? ( For those with snarky remarks) Thank you for everyone else who responded. Is ends with .gov its DOD, but hes paid by his contract company. I would never break into his email, but as I understand, his computer can only be accessed by inserting his card. I do not have a lawyer at this point. Yes, it will be stupid of him to be doing anything, but hes been stupid before, so who knows, but if he is communicating ,he would be doing it via that email,bc he knows theres no way for me to access it. Just asking if its possible to subpeona his email or otherwise obtain those emails for a divorce.

Is this all you're basing your assumption on? Do you know how easy it is for him to open a web-based account you won't even know about unless you hire a hacker to rummage through your hard-drive?

Bitches be crazy.

[Anonymous]

Infidelity NEVER increases child support or affects custody.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Does it really matter why its important or what it will do for me? ( For those with snarky remarks) Thank you for everyone else who responded. Is ends with .gov its DOD, but hes paid by his contract company. I would never break into his email, but as I understand, his computer can only be accessed by inserting his card. I do not have a lawyer at this point. Yes, it will be stupid of him to be doing anything, but hes been stupid before, so who knows, but if he is communicating ,he would be doing it via that email,bc he knows theres no way for me to access it. Just asking if its possible to subpeona his email or otherwise obtain those emails for a divorce.

Is this all you're basing your assumption on? Do you know how easy it is for him to open a web-based account you won't even know about unless you hire a hacker to rummage through your hard-drive?

Bitches be crazy.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know my .gov email address is subject to FOIA requests... Not that I think it'll work or that its the way to go, but just putting it out there.

Plus, a FOIA request can take over a year. You will be paying your attorney and in limbo for this time. If you can't reconcile and are sure he is cheating, just leave.

[Anonymous]

FOIA requests also aren't free. You will be charged for the labor and materials it took to provide those emails.