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Anonymous wrote:No private school in this area will accept a boy who doesn't meet the cut off and most won't accept a summer birthday boy either. Most (all) boys are far too immature no matter how precocious or high the IQ. Also, OP, it is not "red shirting" if he isn't old enough anyway so you wouldn't be "red shirting" your son. Honestly, I thought the cut off for all the top DC privates was Sept.1st.
+1 You are NOT red shirting if you send a September child on time. If you are interested in early admission you are most likely out of luck at any of the privates.
One should never rush his child. Just because a child is an early ready or precocious in other areas, the physical and emotional maturity need to match the peer group, as well. A parent will always be glad he allowed his child to progress at his own pace versus putting him in an environment for which he's not fully ready.
I regret holding my child back. His own pace is far faster than anyone gives him credit for or recognizes. We never should have listened to the hold back non-sense.
I ad the opposite experience. I wish I held back my late birthday DS. He was fine academically, but was at a disadvantage in sports and maturity wise.
Sports are for fun in our home, not a priority. Its only an issue with some sports and my son likes those sports but lousy at them.
He does well at sports where age does not matter. Maturity is different for every child and holding back doesn't make them what ever your standard of mature is. I found holding back with younger kids made him act far younger. When we advanced him, his behavior significantly improved. Funny, the two oldest kids in the class, I think held back, are the worst behaved. My son is saying they are constantly getting in trouble whereas the younger ones are not.