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Ha, are you dating my boss? I wonder about her dating life sometimes, as I can imagine most men would find her super-intimidating. She's all those things you describe, but also pretty gorgeous, and direct in a way that would require a certain kind of partner. the thing is, she's also lonely and a bit vulnerable, entrenched in a stressful job from which she could really use a diversion/some support. She's a great woman, adventurous and charismatic, and I think just looking for someone outside the world where she has to rock it all the time to provide some companionship and escape. I couldn't imagine her dating a total loser, but a nice guy with at least a certain amount of confidence and shared hobbies would be awesome for her.
I have a famous friend from high school (not a household name, but she has fan websites and is well known in certain circles) who also dated, and married, a really normal guy after years of trying to find someone. I wouldn't over think this one! |
Well, that's not famous. Famous is instantly recognizable, no need for research
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+1. Jesus, people. |
+2. If she is "world famous in her field," I bet she knows grammar, too. |
| Why would a successful, intelligent woman go out with someone who writes "has anyone went on a date"? Normally, I'm not the grammar police, but I couldn't let this one go... |
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At first I laughed. Then I thought "Christ I have! A lot!"
ExW - Not directly famous, but three of four grandparents were internationally famous. Authors, artists, etc. Fourth grandparent was famous in his state. Dated a woman from a big business, charitable family. She and the family name are instantly recognizable in their home state and surrounding states (big states too). When I lived in New York 20 + years ago I dated a woman who was super duper famous. You would instantly recognize the name and face. She was awesome as long as she wasn't connected with the business. Before that I dated a woman who was Hollywood famous in her own right. Her grandfather was sup-duper uber famous. Famous people are frequently not happy people. The pressure they feel 24/7 is unimaginable. Most who I have met would give it up in a heartbeat. |
No grammer nazis are failures. Can't see the forest.. |
| Lame without names. |
Thank you. That was bothering me. |
| Me too. I assumed the writer was someone who likes celebrity gossip magazines and not terribly well educated. |
| I had a friend who dated Joshua Bell, and another who dated Yann Martel. |
Who are these people? I'm old. Obviously! LOL |
Wiki is your friend. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joshua_Bell https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yann_Martel |
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The main thing is to treat he like a normal person. She's famous but she still has the same fears, awkwardness, insecurities as anyone else. Find out what makes her tick.
The biggest turn off for me is dating a guy who is intimidated by my income and success. They don't need to be as rich or as successful as I am, but they do need to feel secure in what they do and what they can offer to me (friendship/support/love). Normal guys are great. I don't need a power struggle about who has more success. |
Seriously, this adds nothing. All you're saying is, I dated someone who was Hollywood famous. Her grandfather was super famous. You are revealing nothing incriminating about them so why not just say, I dated drew Barrymore. In NY 20 years ago I dated, Katie Couric or whatever. Geez people, you're not holding or revealing national secrets here. |