She paid. |
Hard to assess unless she is super freaky but likely she was looking for her DH. What is your take on the DH? |
You don't have to pay to search for people. |
Thanks for the contribution but the hack only included paying members. |
Not true. I'm the pp who signed up to find my husband. Didn't pay a cent and I found myself in the hack by reverse searching my email address. |
Did you use your real first and last name? |
| My husband was a paying member and today we're telling our 5 year old we're getting divorced. Full of sadness. |
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All women of DCUM should be thanking god in heaven for Ashley Madison. Just read any thread on here: most of the ladies just do NOT want sex! Or certainly not with their your own husbands. So AM is a great way for him to discreetly find sex, and he won't be bothering you, thereby keeping things stable at home. Much better than him trolling the bars or hitting on women at his job.
And for the 3 of 4 ladies in DC who actually DO want sex, well AM is like the Garnet Hill catalog of horny men. Just browse and click whatever you want because we are all on there. Fact: men's sex drive is 20X stronger than women. AM will never go away, and is actually saving alot of marriages. |
About half or more of married men cheat at some point. Not excusing it, but if you want to roll your eyes at your friends on facebook, assume at least half experience infidelity, perhaps your own marriage is one of them. |
| I thought there were only a couple thousand active women on the whole site. Also women didn't have to pay a red cent. |
If you keep lying you'll eventually believe it yourself |
I'm sorry. I know someone whose DH was a member. Everyone knows and has talked about it. I can only assume she knows too but they're acting like nothing is wrong. I feel so sorry for her. Perhaps they have an open relationship and she's cool with his cheating. However, my pride could never recover if everyone knew DH was on a site like this. I admire you for having the strength to leave. I hope 2016 is a better year for you! |
| Where can I find the list for Arlington? Can you tell me without a link which I assume would be removed? I saw it before but want to check something and cannot find it. Looking for the paying list, not reverse email lookup. |
| You should not assume that the people on the list do not have permission from their spouses. I am on the list and my spouse is on the list. Everything was done with full consent. All of the people we dated were in the same situation. Don't feel sorry for anyone unless you know the whole story. |
No but I used my personal email address which does have my full name in it. |