found a condom in DH sock drawer - is he cheating?

[Anonymous]

Maybe or maybe not.

It could be left over from his single days and he probably forgot about it.

Or maybe he held on to it, "Just in Case..."

The only way you will get an idea is to ask HIM.

[Anonymous]

Ask him see what he says.
What is wrong with women you stress communication 24/7 all day every day, "Honey, we need to talk. Honey, why don't we ever talk? Honey, there's something I need to talk to you about." All this focus on talk and then women turn around and hold more shit inside than a constipated elephant.

[Anonymous]

Ok, not to get too explicit, but a condom and sock with some lubricant can make for nice... Self service. I will bet it's that.

[Anonymous]

How long have you been together? Did you use condoms four to six years ago. If not, I'd be pretty suspicious.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:to clarify - it was an unopened condom wrapper...

Well, I would hope so. I'd divorce any guy who left a used condom in his sock drawer, cheating or not.

I'd divorce any wife who stole my socks.

[Anonymous]

Condoms can be used to cover sex toys to help keep them clean. He may be engaging in self anal play. No harm then.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Condoms can be used to cover sex toys to help keep them clean. He may be engaging in self anal play. No harm then.

hahahahaha. thank you, brightened my afternoon.

[Anonymous]

This is how I busted my ex. I found condoms in a zipper pocket of her purse along with hotel room keys, her AP's credit card info and some hand written notes that left little to the imagination. I knew they weren't my condoms either because I don't use Magnum XL's.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is how I busted my ex. I found condoms in a zipper pocket of her purse along with hotel room keys, her AP's credit card info and some hand written notes that left little to the imagination. I knew they weren't my condoms either because I don't use Magnum XL's.

And how my friend busted hers. He had had a vasectomy, so she knew that they weren't for use with her!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is how I busted my ex. I found condoms in a zipper pocket of her purse along with hotel room keys, her AP's credit card info and some hand written notes that left little to the imagination. I knew they weren't my condoms either because I don't use Magnum XL's.

And how my friend busted hers. He had had a vasectomy, so she knew that they weren't for use with her!

Ugh, sorry for your friend. It sucked but I got through it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is how I busted my ex. I found condoms in a zipper pocket of her purse along with hotel room keys, her AP's credit card info and some hand written notes that left little to the imagination. I knew they weren't my condoms either because I don't use Magnum XL's.

And how my friend busted hers. He had had a vasectomy, so she knew that they weren't for use with her!

Ugh, sorry for your friend. It sucked but I got through it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is how I busted my ex. I found condoms in a zipper pocket of her purse along with hotel room keys, her AP's credit card info and some hand written notes that left little to the imagination. I knew they weren't my condoms either because I don't use Magnum XL's.

And how my friend busted hers. He had had a vasectomy, so she knew that they weren't for use with her!

Ugh, sorry for your friend. It sucked but I got through it.

A post so nice I made it twice!

[Anonymous]

OP, I'm most people have stuff in their sock drawer that they forgot was there until they do a deep clean or something. I wouldn't worry about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here- it is a 4 year old condom - and the drawer is a new drawer in new house from this year - so maybe he emptied out his socks into this new drawer? Don't want to jump to conclusions...

Condoms typically have a shelf life of about 4-5 years, so that condom was probably manufactured/sold 8-9 years ago. What was going on 8-9 years ago when he bought it?

As for how it ended up in the sock drawer, there is no way my husband would clean out his sock drawer when we moved or we got a new dresser. He would simply dump the content into a moving box, and then dump the moving box into the new dresser, so that doesn't seem suspicious to me. But you know your husband better. It's a real organization/anti-clutter type and cleans out the sock drawer every few months, then you have more reason to question it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ok, not to get too explicit, but a condom and sock with some lubricant can make for nice... Self service. I will bet it's that.

Don't know what you mean but it sounds gross.