+1. OP's post was more reasonable than 90% of the stuff I see here in DCUM. |
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Original poster here. In all honesty, I had not even noticed the ethnicity of the audience. After the open house ended , we exchanged comments with a few parents and they mentioned the fact that the fact that the mainly white audience might have played a role in her grey performance.
More than 30% of the threads in this Forum have something to do with race, as is DCPS and DC politics. Any forms I have had to compile for my three kids' enrollment in DCPS programs or DCPR programs (tennis and athletics) asked me to check a box with their ethnicity. Which by the way is arbitrary as they are half Caucasian and half Latino, so the girl prefers to be identified as Latina, the boys as Caucasian but after the summer with his granparents the youngest now wants to be classified as Latino, so now I am checking a different box for him .. just to tell you how little we care about these boxes. I knew it was not a good idea to post in this Forum, as some readers are just hunting for hooks to exacerbate the debate. My intention, again, was to try to share views about what I thought was a very disappointing first encounter, and about a Principal replacement which does not make any sense to me, with a gap between the two Principals which now looks so wide to me to suggest a plan or plot behind this process. |
| This is principal is clearly out of depth and that has been apparent since her hire. |
OP, THANK YOU for sharing your impressions and opening this thread. Ignore the crazies -- we know they exist, but let's just agree to ignore them
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I'm a Wilson parent, and have not been impressed at all by Principal Martin. She seems out of her depth. But, who knows, maybe she'll get better once she figures out Wilson and DCPS a bit.
I'm willing to cut her some slack and see if she improves. And if she doesn't, what can I do about it anyway? Even with a weak Principal, I think my child and my child's peers will still do fine at Wilson. The teacher quality, physical space, extracurriculars, etc. all exist regardless of whether the Principal is good or bad. |
I was actually thinking about asking a follow-up meeting with her if her schedule allows and with one of the Assistant Principals, but at the end I will not. I deeply believe that Principals and school administrators should spend their time administering the school and students rather than sitting with prospective parents in private meetings. Parents have the chance to ask questions at open houses (and the meeting at Wilson was not closed until ALL questions had been asked and answered) and, unless kids have special needs or situations (which is not our case) I believe that parents should refrain from asking private time with school administrators. I plan to attend also the next open house, this time with my son, maybe it really was just a bad day. For your information, in the past have gathered soooo much information from this forum regarding school specific issues of my interest . That's why I am still here, and I guess you are here for the same reason too. |
Well, not entirely true. The call for action before the summer to reinstate the cancelled funding was led by the outstanding interim Principal (current Assistant Principal) . Would she be such a driving and leading force should this happen again? |
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OP can speak for herself, but I've often heard "white demanding parents" to describe a certain, well, stereotype in DC. However, if accurate, I would be concerned about why hardly anyone from 50% of the parent body demographics showed up at Wilson back to school night. That is very concerning. |
I agree, you kind of lost me when I read that sentence. Black parent with a 7th grader at Deal who is still not sold on Wilson. You lost are credibility when you mentioned race so now I am wondering if you are being truly honest in your feedback. Would love to hear from other parents who were there. |
NP - it wasn't back to school night. It was an open house for prospective parents. |
Blah blah blah. OP wrote a thoughtful and long post, and here come some whiners to whine. Add something substantial, such as, why did you NOT attend the Wilson meeting, if you care about your kid's future? |
... because she is in 7th grade ... |
Maybe a weaker principal at Wilson is precisely what DCPS wants. It seems to be a problem they've had at other schools - i.e., finding strong leaders who will only do as they're told. Who knows the deciding factors in choosing Kimberly Martin, but I wouldn't be surprised to learn that they wanted someone experienced in dealing with gaping wealth and achievement disparities. Obviously, a lot of the pull and pressure comes from higher SES parents, which takes attention away from poorer, underachieving kids - the source of pressure from DCPS. They want someone who will be more responsive to those lower end needs. All of which likely makes a room full of white parents somewhat stressful, especially following the public stomping she got on this forum before she'd even moved to town. |