I hate to be a bean counter so is it reasonable to tell dh that...

[Anonymous]

My husband and I both wake up with the kids everyday, unless one of us is ill. He can go to the gym during his lunch break. Weekend exercise is walks/bike rides with the kids.

We each go out alone with our friends 1-2 times per month, and we each go away alone (with friends) about 1 weekend a year.

Your husband is super spoiled. What does he do for you? But now that you've allowed this pattern, it's going to be pretty hard to back pedal. Why did you ever agree to get up alone with the kids? Each morning if he isn't Lready awake when the kids get up, I gently shake him and say, honey the kids are awake and he gets up.