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Anonymous
I have NEVER heard of filing a complaint leading to a more peaceful existence. If that is your goal, don't do it. |
Anonymous
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OP here- the entitlement is for her to stay out of my yard. Gee, I must be SO entitled.
Also, anyone going through this, the FIRST thing you do is video cameras, then a lawyer. Then, if they feel the need to call government agencies, you call MORE government agencies. If they start barking up the wrong tree, it not our house who is going to feel the repercussions, trust me. |
Anonymous
| OP, you're scrapping with a bunch of strangers on an anonymous message board. Maybe time to take a look at yourself and figure out why you can't get along with people? |
Anonymous
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If you have evidence that she is trespassing, use it.
I will pass along what my dh (a lawyer) always says: Do what your lawyer tells you. Follow his instructions to the letter. |
Anonymous
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If the problem is she won't stay out of your yard, remember,
Good fences make good neighbors. I have a silent-treatment like feud with BOTH of my neighbors on each side of me. Perhaps the problem is ME, you say? Well, the lady on side #1 had an affair with my ex husband, which is why we split. And the lady on side #2 hates me because I repeatedly asked her not to leave her dogs in her yard all day to bark and bark and bark when she wasn't home. Ultimately I had to call animal control. So she hates me because she was an irresponsible dog owner. So before you blame the OP, remember there are two sides to every story. Too bad the OP can't give us more info. |
Anonymous
| I would say OP is within her rights. She's not wrong just because she has a nice house. But we have to label her, don't we? |
Anonymous
| She labeled herself, with her smug references to her neighbor's relative poverty. |
Anonymous
| Does her saying she can afford something make her smug? Didn't someone ask? No prejudice on this board. LOL! |
Anonymous
| As PP suggested, what about building a fence? |
Anonymous
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Saying "I can afford it and they can't so they're screwed (and BTW, I'm the one doing the screwing)"? Yeah, that's smug.
Oh, and let me head you off at the pass, there. Angrily typing out "Please show me exactly where I said the above" will not score you any rhetorical points. |
Anonymous
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Saying "I can afford it and they can't so they're screwed (and BTW, I'm the one doing the screwing)"? Yeah, that's smug.
Oh, and let me head you off at the pass, there. Angrily typing out "Please show me exactly where I said the above" will not score you any rhetorical points. AWESOME ENTERTAINMENT THIS TUES. AFTERNOON. LMAO! Why is she the one doing the screwing (which, I might suggest, you get more of) - when the neighbors won't leave her alone? Why should she take it? Are you one of THOSE neighbors? NOT that you come across as smug, or anything..... |
Anonymous
| I am usally a person when I think I am in the right I argue till the end, but sometimes you have to thinkwhat's the wise thing to do, sit there argue, be angry and have a messed up day (then the neighbor wins) or smile at her even though its bothering you, great her whenever u see her, till she get tired of messing with you...and have good days...I think you'll beat the issue if you do the opposite of what your neighbor expects.....good luck..... |
Anonymous
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Call the police saying there's someone in your yard.
The neighbor will be ashamed! |
Anonymous
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