Anonymous wrote:This is a nice post. Sometimes i find myself wondering why I feel I have to be so mean. I never start it -- I never attack someone for asking a question I judge as dumb, or for giving advice I think is bad. But I have done two things:
1. Gotten offended when advice I'm given to a post misses the mark or seems patronizing (aka the "take a deep breath" responses -- I see red)
2. Taken a chunk out of someone for getting rude with me first.
The fact is, the person being so rude is probably just having a bad day. So why make it worse? Still, it's hard not to be a jerk sometimes. That really sucks.
And what's wrong with that?
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