There may be someone else.
Years ago, I was dating a military guy. I liked him, but we'd literally only been together for two months. He found out he was getting sent to Camp Lejeune and he proposed to get me to go with him. I was like "whaaaaat?" And I had to say no, because I was in college on scholarship. We broke up and I found out a month later that he married someone else. He had met her while dating me and decided that if I wouldn't move with him, he'd date her instead. She moved with him.
Face it, you weren't sure about moving in with him, and he's decided that being a free agent makes more sense with his lifestyle. 9 months isn't too bad - at least you didn't waste years on this.
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