Women how has your partners use of Viagra or other medications like it affected your relationship?

[Anonymous]

OK. I'm the original poster. When my man used Viagra recreationally about 10 years ago, i was not thrilled because he was always stiff enough for me and the medication made him so much bigger and harder that i sometimes became sore.

Now, it's very different for me for some reason. I enjoy the effect of the medication it and so does he. I'm glad others have had the same experience.

[Anonymous]

DH took Viagra for 6 months then quit and I fully supported his decision. It was causing him to become more and more conservative in his political views and choice of clothing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OK. I'm the original poster. When my man used Viagra recreationally about 10 years ago, i was not thrilled because he was always stiff enough for me and the medication made him so much bigger and harder that i sometimes became sore.

Now, it's very different for me for some reason. I enjoy the effect of the medication it and so does he. I'm glad others have had the same experience.

My DH wanted to try it recreationally and I shot the idea down quickly. I don't think you should take meds unless you have too. Years later, the first time he used it he didn't tell me but I could feel the difference. His dick was really stiff and unforgiving. Also, it was Huge! I felt like I could barely get him all the way in. I was sore the next day and asked him about it. He fessed up and told me the doctor gave him a script.

I love it now. Sex is good every time and the extra full feeling is nice too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH took Viagra for 6 months then quit and I fully supported his decision. It was causing him to become more and more conservative in his political views and choice of clothing.

Well played!

[Anonymous]

My Story

Faithful for 30 yrs. HS gf contacts me via internet and we begin web flirting and picture swapping. Sexually I became fixated on her. Soon could not get erect for my wife. A few mths of her trying, she insisted on accompanying me to the Doctor for a fix. Doctor prescribed T shots. I immediately broke things off with internet gf and could once again become erect for wife. It happened within a couple days of each other: broke up with gf, took first shot, got erection for wife.
I knew all along that my penis had a mental fixation on gf and that I didn't need any shots. However, I couldn't tell the wife that. I have been getting shots for a few yrs now. It makes me horny as hell. Always looking at porn and have had 4 AP's. Viagra makes it possible for me to perform on the first meetups. It's really the T shots that have made a monster out of me.

Someday, I'll quit the shots and settle back down. I'm on the brink of turning 60 and want to enjoy it while I can. I really do love my wife and hope to spend the rest of my life with her. Bomb away if you must, but I already know I'm a monster.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If women only had our equipment, they would know that it doesn't just always magically get hard. They take offense to it because they expect that it's so automatic that guys don't even have to think about it.

Wrong. It has nothing to do with us not being attracted to you. And the worst part about it is that the way many women react to the situation only makes the man's problems worse.

+1

Women make it about themselves.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:DH took Viagra for 6 months then quit and I fully supported his decision. It was causing him to become more and more conservative in his political views and choice of clothing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My Story

Faithful for 30 yrs. HS gf contacts me via internet and we begin web flirting and picture swapping. Sexually I became fixated on her. Soon could not get erect for my wife. A few mths of her trying, she insisted on accompanying me to the Doctor for a fix. Doctor prescribed T shots. I immediately broke things off with internet gf and could once again become erect for wife. It happened within a couple days of each other: broke up with gf, took first shot, got erection for wife.
I knew all along that my penis had a mental fixation on gf and that I didn't need any shots. However, I couldn't tell the wife that. I have been getting shots for a few yrs now. It makes me horny as hell. Always looking at porn and have had 4 AP's. Viagra makes it possible for me to perform on the first meetups. It's really the T shots that have made a monster out of me.

Someday, I'll quit the shots and settle back down. I'm on the brink of turning 60 and want to enjoy it while I can. I really do love my wife and hope to spend the rest of my life with her. Bomb away if you must, but I already know I'm a monster.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My Story

Faithful for 30 yrs. HS gf contacts me via internet and we begin web flirting and picture swapping. Sexually I became fixated on her. Soon could not get erect for my wife. A few mths of her trying, she insisted on accompanying me to the Doctor for a fix. Doctor prescribed T shots. I immediately broke things off with internet gf and could once again become erect for wife. It happened within a couple days of each other: broke up with gf, took first shot, got erection for wife.
I knew all along that my penis had a mental fixation on gf and that I didn't need any shots. However, I couldn't tell the wife that. I have been getting shots for a few yrs now. It makes me horny as hell. Always looking at porn and have had 4 AP's. Viagra makes it possible for me to perform on the first meetups. It's really the T shots that have made a monster out of me.

Someday, I'll quit the shots and settle back down. I'm on the brink of turning 60 and want to enjoy it while I can. I really do love my wife and hope to spend the rest of my life with her. Bomb away if you must, but I already know I'm a monster.[/quote]

As in "monster player," or "hose monster." Seriously, all our 60s should be so hot.

You do at least service your spouse, right?

[Anonymous]

Yes, I do take care of my wife. She's low libido and is very happy at once a week.

I think that's partly why I have very little guilt. She had always been selfish, now I'm getting the amount of sex that is right for me. I figure what she doesn't know about won't hurt her. I'm very careful. Although I realize that society frowns on me. For once in my life I'm being selfish and getting what I want. Life is way too short.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I do take care of my wife. She's low libido and is very happy at once a week.

I think that's partly why I have very little guilt. She had always been selfish, now I'm getting the amount of sex that is right for me. I figure what she doesn't know about won't hurt her. I'm very careful. Although I realize that society frowns on me. For once in my life I'm being selfish and getting what I want. Life is way too short.

Sorry, but that's just f*cked up. I've been married 13 years and I can't imagine (actually, I can, but I wouldn't) cheating on my wife. I'd rather exit this world having missed out and knowing I'm a good person than cheat on my best friend.

[Anonymous]

If I were low drive, I would give my DH permission to get it elsewhere. I don't need to hold him prisoner to my lack of interest.

[Anonymous]

To answer the original question, my DH takes V and it has had a positive impact on our relationship. The sex is much better and I think we stay more connected as a couple. Sometime I feel like I'm being beaten with a flashlight though, lol.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I do take care of my wife. She's low libido and is very happy at once a week.

I think that's partly why I have very little guilt. She had always been selfish, now I'm getting the amount of sex that is right for me. I figure what she doesn't know about won't hurt her. I'm very careful. Although I realize that society frowns on me. For once in my life I'm being selfish and getting what I want. Life is way too short.

Sorry, but that's just f*cked up. I've been married 13 years and I can't imagine (actually, I can, but I wouldn't) cheating on my wife. I'd rather exit this world having missed out and knowing I'm a good person than cheat on my best friend.

And your reward for being a good person is both missing out sexually and becoming worm food. It's a shame people don't have a consciousness slightly after death to learn that heaven is a lie.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, I do take care of my wife. She's low libido and is very happy at once a week.

I think that's partly why I have very little guilt. She had always been selfish, now I'm getting the amount of sex that is right for me. I figure what she doesn't know about won't hurt her. I'm very careful. Although I realize that society frowns on me. For once in my life I'm being selfish and getting what I want. Life is way too short.

Sorry, but that's just f*cked up. I've been married 13 years and I can't imagine (actually, I can, but I wouldn't) cheating on my wife. I'd rather exit this world having missed out and knowing I'm a good person than cheat on my best friend.

And your reward for being a good person is both missing out sexually and becoming worm food. It's a shame people don't have a consciousness slightly after death to learn that heaven is a lie.

LOL well put