| Junior at at Sidwell. Gets home by 7 or 8 pm after ECA/sports and works until 1 am most nights. works all day Sat. takes most of sunday off. very good student who wants As/B plus in all classes. hard to do at Sidwell US. volunteers Friday nights. wants to prep for SATs but difficult to find time. enjoys studying because material is interesting and teachers are good. |
Ouch!! Does he catch up on sleep on the weekends or does he need little sleep. |
Have it how you want, however, I am still not impressed. I feel largely, homework are primarily busywork and I can't no longer buy into that. I don't stress my kid about doing homework. he test very well, but he is mostly a B student because he doesn't alway do homework, But he generally test at or above 95% range in standardized test. I do homeschool my kid. He uses the homework time to learn other skills, that, along with test scores he will have a competitive resume for college. Letter grades can be subjective. I am not just going to go along with this ridiculous homework system |
pp , that's a little startling that you would steer your kid away from the curriculum of the teacher and try to force your kid to divert that time to do homework that " you assign". And you are doing this in High School ?? I can see adding an enrichment activity, but telling them"no" don't do that busy work crap" , do "my assignment" is just wacky ESPECIALLY if you are paying tuition. I am surprised the school has not pulled your contract. |
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NCS has a homework limit of 42 minutes per subject per night. 5 subjects= 210 minutes per night. That is 3.5 hours before studying for tests. That is the limit. Makes you wonder what was going on before the limit.
I have heard multiple people say Sidwell's workload is very heavy. freshman up until midnight. That sounds crazy to me. And so unnecessary. |
| This is all very sad. When I went to high school 20 years ago we had nothing like this. Maybe an hour a night and a bit more if I was studying for a big test or finishing a project. I was successful in college and after and then career. I would hate to think of these current kids just peaking at hs. Life is more than homework and sleep for kids is important. |
+1 Talk of getting used to the rat race early.. This just seems like a pretty depressing way to spend your high school years. I suspect that most kids come out of this not all that interesting. I hardly ever worked for more than an hour, if that, when I was in high school in Europe; I even went to my favorite live music venue on one school night every week (admittedly I was tired the next day). Exam prep was done mostly on my 30 min tram ride to school. Interestingly enough, I, and many of my overseas peers, found college a lot easier and, on average, did better, than many students who had attended US high schools. (It was an Ivy, so I assume it meets the DCUM standards of rigor.) Something seems very wrong with US education. |
STA's handbook says that upper school students should plan on doing an hour for each subject every night. So if they get home at 7 from sports, which is pretty typical they need to work straight from 7-11/12 every night. I don't want my kid to have this kind of HS experience. |
Never texts or uses his phone or watches videos on the computer or plays video games because he is not a normal teenager, but is in fact an ALIEN. Most students significantly underestimate how much time they lose through "multitasking," in particular using social media, so it's not surprising that their parents also think that a kid can work from 5-6 hours and isn't spending any real time diverted by social media/gaming. |
Whatever. Why are you posting on a private school forum if you homeschool? |
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Replying to the STA/NCS threads posters.
There's a different schedule this year. In a 7-day period (it's a block schedule rotating on 7 days), a student who is taking 5 classes has 25 total class meetings and 5 free periods (of 65 minutes each). That averages out to about 3.55 classes per night. The student will have a free period 5 out of every 7 days that is 65 minutes long. The student will have 200 minutes of additional free time if they aren't in orchestra/chorus, as their are dedicated class periods for music that are free periods for other students. So they're not prepping for five classes a night. Generally it's four and sometimes it's three. And god bless the STA handbook, but the typical STA student does not do anything like an average of one hour per homework per class per night. If this worries you, talk to a range of families. |
If this isn't a phony post, just an FYI that high test scores with not impressive grades are the reddest of red flags to colleges. Throw in recommendation letters that boil down to "smart, but doesn't do his work" and that is the farthest thing from a "competitive resume" for college.
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| Thank you STA families! |
| My husband and I talk about this quite a bit. My father and grandfather went to the same Ivy. My husband and I went to Ivy-equivalents. None of us had such large degrees of homework as my kids today. We were all highly successful in school and afterwards. We feel that today's homework levels takes away from developing creativity and innovation in my children's generation. You can't really problem solve without time to truly think. Of course, today's cell phones/Internet also take away from this. However, with that said, you need to play the game. Until the whole system changes, you need to put the hours in to get into the same schools today that we got in with an easier work load. |
New poster here - I have no issues with any of your comments (in fact they are mostly spot on) but I would not say this statement is necessarily true - I never had nearly as much homework as kids have today. It wasn't even close. |