online dating - would you go out with this guy?

[Anonymous]

Creepy. So hell no.

Back in my dating years, I actually got a second line put on my home phone that was unlisted. It allowed me to have a phone number that I could give out, that could not be traced back to my last name or home address.

[Anonymous]

No. If your gut says no say no- you don't need a better reason than that.

[Anonymous]

Definitely not. Even if he isn't psycho, he is desperate and needy; imagine if you go out on 1 date with him -- he will think you are ready to marry him and it'll be even harder to back away after you've met in person.

I'd ignore him and block him. In no way should you give your home address/neighborhood, last name, or work place - just in case there is something wrong.

I also agree with the PP that dating someone who lives 5 hrs away and acts like this is even more concerning. If he comes to your area, very likely he will pressure you to stay over bc he doesn't want to make a long drive back that day. If you go to his area -- you are totally on his turf without a friend who could come "rescue" you, should you need to get out. Even meeting in the middle at 2.5 hrs away puts you somewhere outside your geography and you have no one who can get to you quick if there's some reason you want to get away.

Ignore him/block him and don't think twice.