Update. 5 days still pouting. Not a word from the drama machine! |
And BTW, thanks everyone for your support here. We are sticking to our morals and if she doesn't like it - it is her loss. Very sad in some ways but nevertheless her choice. |
Here is what I've learned to do:
Step 1: Register your displeasure once and clearly. Step 2: If person is stupid, they will ignore you and tell you to MYOB. This happens 99% of the time. Step 3: Make popcorn. Sit back. Step 4: Watch person fall flat on their face and come crying to you. Happens 99% of the time. |
Yes. Surely she will see the light and dump the man she loves so she can hang out with her stepson and step-bitch-in-law every now and then. ![]() |
OP, honestly, you sound patronizing. Why are you schooling an adult woman?
It's her life and her choice. It is maybe a wrong choice and immoral, but not criminal. |
Definitely, it's your house and your rules and you can choose whatever stance you want.
However, did she ask you to actually spend time or meet him? Your OP only says she wanted him to pick her up at your house. If that's the case, I think you are being a little rigid. You don't have to meet him. Only she does, to meet her ride. |
Wow aren't you lovely. Maybe you should have said Step son-of-a-bitch and step bitch-in-law. Both of of feel this way not just myself and she can have all the relationship she wants on her time with this married man she is in-love with. We don't give a damn. Just not in our house. |
She expects us to accept him into our home as her partner. And yes wants us to meet him. If he comes here both will happen - she is very pushy! |
Yes it is her choice and adultery is considered unlawful in many places. It is her life and her choice but we don't agree with it and it is our life and our choice and our children we do not won't around their grandmother in an adulterous affair. |
adultery is considered unlawful in your state? |
Actually yes and in several others: North Carolina Rhode Island Kansas Massachusetts Colorado Florida South Carolina Tennessee Virginia Utah Missouri Mississippi Georgia Indiana Maryland Arizona Michigan Illinois |
so just turn her in and problem solved for years ahead. |
In 21 states, cheating in a marriage is against the law, punishable by a fine or even jail time. |
So OP prefers to stick to her morals and not the law. Send that awful criminal to jail already! |
Nope just don't want him in our life. Geez your a piece of work. |