Step - Mother in Law seeing married man

Anonymous
Update. 5 days still pouting. Not a word from the drama machine!
Anonymous
And BTW, thanks everyone for your support here. We are sticking to our morals and if she doesn't like it - it is her loss. Very sad in some ways but nevertheless her choice.
Anonymous
Here is what I've learned to do:

Step 1: Register your displeasure once and clearly.

Step 2: If person is stupid, they will ignore you and tell you to MYOB. This happens 99% of the time.

Step 3: Make popcorn. Sit back.

Step 4: Watch person fall flat on their face and come crying to you. Happens 99% of the time.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:And BTW, thanks everyone for your support here. We are sticking to our morals and if she doesn't like it - it is her loss. Very sad in some ways but nevertheless her choice.


Yes. Surely she will see the light and dump the man she loves so she can hang out with her stepson and step-bitch-in-law every now and then.
Anonymous
OP, honestly, you sound patronizing. Why are you schooling an adult woman?
It's her life and her choice. It is maybe a wrong choice and immoral, but not criminal.
Anonymous
Definitely, it's your house and your rules and you can choose whatever stance you want.

However, did she ask you to actually spend time or meet him? Your OP only says she wanted him to pick her up at your house. If that's the case, I think you are being a little rigid. You don't have to meet him. Only she does, to meet her ride.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:And BTW, thanks everyone for your support here. We are sticking to our morals and if she doesn't like it - it is her loss. Very sad in some ways but nevertheless her choice.


Yes. Surely she will see the light and dump the man she loves so she can hang out with her stepson and step-bitch-in-law every now and then.


Wow aren't you lovely. Maybe you should have said Step son-of-a-bitch and step bitch-in-law. Both of of feel this way not just myself and she can have all the relationship she wants on her time with this married man she is in-love with. We don't give a damn. Just not in our house.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Definitely, it's your house and your rules and you can choose whatever stance you want.

However, did she ask you to actually spend time or meet him? Your OP only says she wanted him to pick her up at your house. If that's the case, I think you are being a little rigid. You don't have to meet him. Only she does, to meet her ride.


She expects us to accept him into our home as her partner. And yes wants us to meet him. If he comes here both will happen - she is very pushy!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:OP, honestly, you sound patronizing. Why are you schooling an adult woman?
It's her life and her choice. It is maybe a wrong choice and immoral, but not criminal.


Yes it is her choice and adultery is considered unlawful in many places. It is her life and her choice but we don't agree with it and it is our life and our choice and our children we do not won't around their grandmother in an adulterous affair.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, honestly, you sound patronizing. Why are you schooling an adult woman?
It's her life and her choice. It is maybe a wrong choice and immoral, but not criminal.


Yes it is her choice and adultery is considered unlawful in many places. It is her life and her choice but we don't agree with it and it is our life and our choice and our children we do not won't around their grandmother in an adulterous affair.

adultery is considered unlawful in your state?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, honestly, you sound patronizing. Why are you schooling an adult woman?
It's her life and her choice. It is maybe a wrong choice and immoral, but not criminal.


Yes it is her choice and adultery is considered unlawful in many places. It is her life and her choice but we don't agree with it and it is our life and our choice and our children we do not won't around their grandmother in an adulterous affair.

adultery is considered unlawful in your state?


Actually yes and in several others:

North Carolina

Rhode Island

Kansas

Massachusetts

Colorado

Florida

South Carolina

Tennessee

Virginia

Utah

Missouri

Mississippi

Georgia

Indiana

Maryland

Arizona

Michigan

Illinois
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, honestly, you sound patronizing. Why are you schooling an adult woman?
It's her life and her choice. It is maybe a wrong choice and immoral, but not criminal.


Yes it is her choice and adultery is considered unlawful in many places. It is her life and her choice but we don't agree with it and it is our life and our choice and our children we do not won't around their grandmother in an adulterous affair.

adultery is considered unlawful in your state?


Actually yes and in several others:

North Carolina

Rhode Island

Kansas

Massachusetts

Colorado

Florida

South Carolina

Tennessee

Virginia

Utah

Missouri

Mississippi

Georgia

Indiana

Maryland

Arizona

Michigan

Illinois


so just turn her in and problem solved for years ahead.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, honestly, you sound patronizing. Why are you schooling an adult woman?
It's her life and her choice. It is maybe a wrong choice and immoral, but not criminal.


Yes it is her choice and adultery is considered unlawful in many places. It is her life and her choice but we don't agree with it and it is our life and our choice and our children we do not won't around their grandmother in an adulterous affair.

adultery is considered unlawful in your state?


Actually yes and in several others:

North Carolina

Rhode Island

Kansas

Massachusetts

Colorado

Florida

South Carolina

Tennessee

Virginia

Utah

Missouri

Mississippi

Georgia

Indiana

Maryland

Arizona

Michigan

Illinois


In 21 states, cheating in a marriage is against the law, punishable by a fine or even jail time.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, honestly, you sound patronizing. Why are you schooling an adult woman?
It's her life and her choice. It is maybe a wrong choice and immoral, but not criminal.


Yes it is her choice and adultery is considered unlawful in many places. It is her life and her choice but we don't agree with it and it is our life and our choice and our children we do not won't around their grandmother in an adulterous affair.

adultery is considered unlawful in your state?


Actually yes and in several others:

North Carolina

Rhode Island

Kansas

Massachusetts

Colorado

Florida

South Carolina

Tennessee

Virginia

Utah

Missouri

Mississippi

Georgia

Indiana

Maryland

Arizona

Michigan

Illinois


In 21 states, cheating in a marriage is against the law, punishable by a fine or even jail time.

So OP prefers to stick to her morals and not the law. Send that awful criminal to jail already!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, honestly, you sound patronizing. Why are you schooling an adult woman?
It's her life and her choice. It is maybe a wrong choice and immoral, but not criminal.


Yes it is her choice and adultery is considered unlawful in many places. It is her life and her choice but we don't agree with it and it is our life and our choice and our children we do not won't around their grandmother in an adulterous affair.

adultery is considered unlawful in your state?


Actually yes and in several others:

North Carolina

Rhode Island

Kansas

Massachusetts

Colorado

Florida

South Carolina

Tennessee

Virginia

Utah

Missouri

Mississippi

Georgia

Indiana

Maryland

Arizona

Michigan

Illinois


so just turn her in and problem solved for years ahead.


Nope just don't want him in our life. Geez your a piece of work.
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