Anonymous wrote:
you don't have the support from the spouse anymore. Not many intelligent spouses stay at home and take care of the home front anymore. Not after going to college and graduate school.
Agreed. There is a trend of men and women marrying people of similar educational levels. Who is going to stay home after investing anywhere from 6-9 nears in higher education, especially if there is substantial student loan debt? Realistically, most houses are two income households and it is extremely difficult to support two careers that involve 60+ hours a work a week (especially inflexible work). Workplaces will have to adapt unless they want some serious brain drain and/or lack of commitment that people are bitching about.
Again, two working spouses has been going on for the past 30 years, if anything, women's labor participation after having kids has gone down in recent years.
The women's labor participation after having kids has gone down mainly in families where the one salary not cover childcare. It's less drastic for professionals. The millennial generation has the highest percentage of college educated people in history (and the highest incidence of "assortative mating" where people marry people of similar education levels get married to one another), and compared to 30 years ago, many more women are college educated, and many more have graduate degrees. In fact, more women than men graduate college these days, which certainly was not true 30 years ago. On top of that, they have the highest student loan debt of any generation ever before, which makes leaving the workforce even less of an option. I think for professional families in particular, the millennial generation will demand a lot more in terms of sharing childrearing equally. For people who are in their 30s, I see a lot more dads taking paternity leave.