Race aside...Hair

[Anonymous]

Another white woman here, mid-30s, middle management, with naturally curly hair that I wear in its natural state. I love when AA women rock a more natural 'do (if that's their thing). In my organization there is a woman with a PhD who rocks a HUGE fro that I think is really cool. She is on the younger side, but I can't ever imagine it being OK for someone to judge her on it. I don't understand why this is not ok in conservative settings, if it is well-maintained and clean. I feel like it would be unacceptable for someone to make a judgment based on hair texture alone.

Personally, when I interview, I try to assess the style of the person interviewing and then match it as much as possible. If you can find a pic on linkedin or such maybe you can tell if the person seems to value high-maintenance looks or if they have a free-thinking approach.

[Anonymous]

OP here - thanks for the feedback! Interestingly enough, when I look around, not many white women with naturally curly hair wear it that way, either. In fact, one of my coworkers gets her hair blown out at the salon every other day (i kid you not, on her way into work).

I usually err on the side of being conservative, but the summer heat makes me frizzy and it takes a ton of effort to get it/keep it straight in July and August. Not sure what I will do this week (interview on Wednesday!) but I will pay attention to the forecast for sure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here - thanks for the feedback! Interestingly enough, when I look around, not many white women with naturally curly hair wear it that way, either. In fact, one of my coworkers gets her hair blown out at the salon every other day (i kid you not, on her way into work).

I usually err on the side of being conservative, but the summer heat makes me frizzy and it takes a ton of effort to get it/keep it straight in July and August. Not sure what I will do this week (interview on Wednesday!) but I will pay attention to the forecast for sure.

PP with curly hair (white). You are correct, most of the other white women I know with curly hair straighten it. I don't get it but whatever. I'm sure they think I look awful, lol.

However, we just hired a white woman with very curly/frizzy hair (classic Irish 'fro). Love it.

[Anonymous]

PP white woman with curly hair here... I say, pack goes one way, I go the other.

[Anonymous]

i would not care. i am only concerned with professional attire and the fact that you know your stuff. ditto for turbans, nose piercings, tattoos. anyone who thinks otherwise needs a crash course in "america 2014".