Read the OP again, dude. It says the mom did not go to college and has no understanding of the US college system, and speaks English as a second language. This strongly implies to me a low-income family with a language barrier, not a globe-trotting global elite family. Obviously low-income students can be just as bright and just as deserving, but the fact is that many are not prepared to go to Harvard, and many perils exist in the form of fraudulent for-profit colleges just waiting to take advantage of kids like this. In between Harvard and ITT Tech, there are many options that need to be sussed out. Of course this kid should go to the best school that is appropriate for him, but his concerns may be much different from an NCS senior. Or maybe he is qualified for the Ivy League, who knows. The point is, good college counseling will look at his grades and aptitude and realistic opportunities that give him the best chance to graduate without overwhelming debt. |
Classic. The poster says to beware random links and then proceeds to post one. SMH. So much bad info in this post. |
I thought this post had some great and useful info. In particular, OP should think carefully, iff a 3rd-tier private does happen to be an option, about paying for a 3rd-tier private school that may offer less than what her kid could get at UMD or UVA or many other state schools. I'm the PP who explained the Naviance scattergrams, also my kid goes to an Ivy, so we have lots of experienc and the 1st PP is spot on. IF DC#2 can't get into a college worth $65k/year, we will steer him towards a state school. PP offered the proper caveats about making assumptions about OP and her friend, so I don't see the problem there. (I also wish that whingy European PP would get lost. She pops up here occasionally to slam everybody else and almost never offers any helpful advice.) |