Seeing it with your own two eyes, mums the word

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Myob

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How was any of the judgmental, self-congratulatory language remotely relevant to your question?

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If I were the wife I'd want somebody to tell me.

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I wouldn't say anything nor would I plan joint vacations/get togethers with the spouses in question. I think saying something reflects badly on you as gossip because you are not impacted in any way and you do not know for sure (though you suspect).

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I probably would have gone over and said "hi" and ask both how there spouses are doing. People like that are horrid.

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Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't say anything nor would I plan joint vacations/get togethers with the spouses in question. I think saying something reflects badly on you as gossip because you are not impacted in any way and you do not know for sure (though you suspect).

No I do not suspect didn't want to delve but they practically had a makeout session in the restaurant, when he slipped into her side of the booth that was my getaway sign, their backs were to me- thank God! TRUST me they were together in every sense.

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Boy, I think that even with what you saw you can't be positive about what's happening there...

I saw something sort of similar some time ago, although I think it was more subtle than this enthusiastic greeting that you saw. It was more of a look that they gave each other. No doubt in my own mind what I saw of course and what it meant. But, really...how do I really know what I saw? Maybe it was nothing...but certainly it was NONE of my business.

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Hi I am not going to argue about it being none of my business because it really isn't but to see two married parents practically feeling each other up and french kissing was more proof than I needed to see to not make an assumption but an observation of a affair in full swing.

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Anonymous wrote:Hi I am not going to argue about it being none of my business because it really isn't but to see two married parents practically feeling each other up and french kissing was more proof than I needed to see to not make an assumption but an observation of a affair in full swing.

You don't know them. This doesn't involve you (thank goodness). They are grown adults with their own lives and they can do what they want to do. Be glad that it is not your business.

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Anonymous wrote:Boy, I think that even with what you saw you can't be positive about what's happening there...

I saw something sort of similar some time ago, although I think it was more subtle than this enthusiastic greeting that you saw. It was more of a look that they gave each other. No doubt in my own mind what I saw of course and what it meant. But, really...how do I really know what I saw? Maybe it was nothing...but certainly it was NONE of my business.

I am all for OP going the MYOB route, but you sound naive saying she can't be positive. Making out with someone else's spouse in public = cheating.

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Anonymous wrote:Forgot to add a point- one of the women I have become good friends with is very very good friends with this woman in question. Don't say anything right?

Correct. As you declared, You work and are supposedly above it all. Dont be a busy body.

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Anonymous wrote:This happened with two colleagues of mine (both senior partners at our firm) at a distant, romantic inn in Virginia. Saw 'em finishing up dinner, holding hands, gazing into each others' eyes etc just as we were arriving. He is married with three kids, she is divorced. They didn't see me.

Ok, have an affair---but why do you feel the need to take risks by being together in public?

Love nests are expensive and create documentation of the affair.

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Anonymous wrote:How was any of the judgmental, self-congratulatory language remotely relevant to your question?

To blur the antagonist and protagonist lines. People have a hard time siding with one or the other.

Just a guess.

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People will have.....*

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MYOB x 1,000,000

You were nice not to go say hi to them. If I were feeling mischievous, I would have stopped by their table and said hi on the way out.