Would pics of your ex cause trouble in your current relationship?

[Anonymous]

Is the ex the child's mother? Is the child supposed to have hatched from the father's sperm alone?

This man has serious problems.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This makes me really sad. Mom did a very thoughtful thing and Son behaved like a dick. Son has a kid, so it's pretty obvious to the new girlfriend that there was a woman before her. Son needs to chill the F out.

+1000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is the ex the child's mother? Is the child supposed to have hatched from the father's sperm alone?

This man has serious problems.

+1000

SON owes mom a huge apology especially in front of gf. If I was the gf, I would dump his ass for his ungrateful asenine reaction.

[Anonymous]

The next photo book should have the new girlfriend's face photoshopped on the ex-DW's body.

Lots of jealous new girlfriend threads right now. I suspect it is related to the horrible winter we just had. Those ladies survived it and promised themselves that they would never again have to shovel out their own cars.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I do agree his reaction is a bit extreme, however if the relationship ended on REALLY bad terms then I can see his side.

For example, if she cheated on him or took him to the cleaners in court, etc.

Regardless, there are worse offenses a mother can do to her son + no one knows what tomorrow will bring or not bring, and life is too short to stop speaking to your mother over such things.

I say the son lets this one go.

If there relationship split under circumstances like those bolded above, AND he feels his mother dismissed it/blamed him for it at the time (e.g. Mom told him that if he made more money/lost some weight the ex wouldn't have cheated, etc. etc.) then I think this reaction might be understandable. Not graceful or mature, but understandable.

Otherwise, he's just plain out of line.

[Anonymous]

Son is a whack job.

I am in all of the ber mitzvah pics in my ex boyfriend's family. I was very important to him in the yeaers his nieces and nephews turned thirteen. Group shots including me are on his parent's dining room wall.

Are they supposed to pretend these simchas never happened just because I attended? Of course not.

My parents had a hateful marriage. It breaks my heart when they refer to my entire childhood as a miserable period.

To this guy: grow up. To mom: wonderful gift. You can join my family if you want appreciation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This makes me really sad. Mom did a very thoughtful thing and Son behaved like a dick. Son has a kid, so it's pretty obvious to the new girlfriend that there was a woman before her. Son needs to chill the F out.

Amen!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is the ex the child's mother? Is the child supposed to have hatched from the father's sperm alone?

This man has serious problems.

+1000

SON owes mom a huge apology especially in front of gf. If I was the gf, I would dump his ass for his ungrateful asenine reaction.

+ 1. I wouldn't want to be with a man who values his child's mother so little.

[Anonymous]

Son sounds like a big drama queen or maybe one of those narcissist people, it all has to be about him?

[Anonymous]

If she made it for the grandson, then I think the pics of ex are fine. If she made it for her son, then no - you don't include pics of the ex. Especially when there was animosity. Maybe she was abusive or she cheated on him or some other reason why he might not want frequent reminders of an ex in a book that is meant to be a positive thing.

Just like some women wouldn't want pictures of a man who beat them or cheated on them in a book that was meant to be a gift to them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If she made it for the grandson, then I think the pics of ex are fine. If she made it for her son, then no - you don't include pics of the ex. Especially when there was animosity. Maybe she was abusive or she cheated on him or some other reason why he might not want frequent reminders of an ex in a book that is meant to be a positive thing.

Just like some women wouldn't want pictures of a man who beat them or cheated on them in a book that was meant to be a gift to them.

He wouldn't have taken issue with pics in the past. The last pic in the album is the three of them, son, ex, and grandson, at grandson's elementary graduation. Last June.

He's having a problem with them now, and it seems tied to his new gf.