How would your kid feel if everyone skipped his birthday party?? |
That is so rude!! Please don't do that. And besides, you can consider it free entertainment and you can sit there and be lazy while your kid enjoys his friends and birthday stuff. What else are you going to do? Have your kids sit there patiently all day long watching you be lazy? You might as well have them watch paint dry. |
My 17 month old will not snuggle in bed. She is all go go go. And we now officially can't go to restaurants either. I'm hoping 1-3 are the hardest years and then there's some light at the end of the tunnel. |
This is totally choking me up. My kids are 2.5y and 7m, so we're right in the thick of it, but thank you for this reminder of how fast time flies. I try so hard to cherish these times, tough as they are, for this exact reason. |
You will have a lazy Sunday again! I have 3 kids (7, 5 and 5). Saturdays are usually busy with sporting events and bday parties but Sundays are often quiet (with sometimes an afternoon event or bday party). This morning we all slept until 8am. Kids colored / drew for an hour upon waking up while I drank coffee, then ate breakfast and played on iPad (a very occasional treat) while I went for a run, I came back and ate a leisurely brunch while reading 2 papers. Now lounging on couch with DH while kids playing in the yard. Uh oh - fight might be erupting - prob time to take them out somewhere!! |
I'm sorry, what exactly are you reply to here? What about trading off morning duty with my husband has anything to do with being rude and birthday parties? |
Poster quoted the wrong message. I'm sure it wasn't personal - she was replying to another post (not yours) about skipping the kids' birthday parties. |
Mine is 11 and I have had many years of lazy Sundays back. I love lazy Sundays hanging out at the pool or on the deck with my tween *way* more than I liked the toddler/preschooler years. I don't miss those years for a minute. |
Wow, this so rarely happens but every single thing you said was either something I disagreed with or it made me roll my eyes. |
New poster here. Hopefully kidskin it their actual friends and not just any old kid they know. Friends make it a point to get to friends parties. |
I advise that when the kids get a bit older, you sign them up for activities on Sundays, like gymnastics, that don't accept/require parental involvement. then you can sit and read the paper for the entire class. ![]() |
Thank goodness those days are long gone.
I remember very well those days when my own were that age. You will be so grateful when they are grown and you will have your Sundays back again! By then, you will never take reading the Sunday paper uninterrupted for granted again ever! |