Would my neighbor be offended if...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My DD wouldn't have been offended but she'd have been displeased. She was running around getting ready with her friends, there was drama with one of their dates, the limo was late - it was stressful. The last thing she'd have wanted was to step away from her friends or be around kids with potentially sticky hands to pose for a neighbor.

She wouldn't have had to. She could say - can't tonight, sorry, running late. I'll show you the dress or picture though later this week.

She wouldn't feel comfortable saying no to an adult that way.

[Anonymous]

I think she'd love it, I'm sure it would make her feel special. Just ask if you can pop over for a minute with the kids to see her and take a picture if she isn't too busy. Let her know if she's behind schedule, no need for pictures. This way, she won't feel stressed (which I doubt she would anyway).

[Anonymous]

If she's like an older sister to your kids she'd love it. Ask if the kids can come see her off and then if there's a good moment ask for a picture. Low pressure. I think it's really sweet.