How are you affectionate towards your spouse?

[Anonymous]

My wife and I don't have sex as much as I'd like. Haven't for 10 years since the kids came along really. But recently, I've found (somewhat unexpectedly) that cuddling on the couch helps bridge the gap between what she wants and what I want.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What kind of affection is your DH looking for? Have you been more affectionate in the past, and he misses that, or is he asking you to change the kind of person you are?

I kiss my DH good-bye in the morning and good night before we turn the lights off, but we don't hold hands, cuddle, or touch each other in bed, and never say "I love you," except maybe in birthday or anniversary cards. We're just not affectionate people; it would feel really insincere for me to try to fake that. But DH knew that I was that kind of person before he married me.

Pp, just curious, do you and hour dh have regular sex?