Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'll try to keep this as short as possible.
My ex & I broke up almost 5 yrs ago. We share a DS. Ex started seeing someone before I even moved out. Once I move out, about a year later, I begin to see someone. Up until that point, our relationship was borderline civil. We constantly argued, like I assume most ex's do. However, after I began to see someone, & specifically took our DS on vacation w/my new partner, it got worse. Within a week of returning, my ex assaulted me in front of our 4 yr old at the time. Obviously, I had my ex arrested, & pressed charges. Ex was found guilty. Fast forward almost 2 yrs later, my ex is constantly picking fights w/me via text & email, blaming me for all of their financial issues, and accusing me of trying to turn our DS again them, as well as blaming me for any issues my DS has, which we have him in therapy for. They have lied to mutual "so-called friends", & have successfully turned some of them against me, claiming self defense. I know this to be true, because the same lie was told in court, which the judge didn't believe, & anyone who knows me, knows this is a complete lie. My ex is also constantly threatening to change the custody arrangement, which they have been threatening to do since we split. I'm not overly concerned about it, other than them holding this over my head, knowing that my time w/my son is very important to me. My DS & I are very close, & I believe my ex is jealous.
I feel like my ex is never going to get past this, & it's not my problem. However, they are a complete pain in the ass, & clearly miserable, in my opinion. I am, on the other hand, very happy, & in a healthly relationship for almost 3 yrs. Other than continue to ignore my ex's emails & texts, how can I get my ex to back off?
You just said you're very happy so fuck his antics.
Can't have EVERYTHING you want - we all have to suffer some headaches its part of life.
Be glad you're in a healthy relationship and pay him no mind unless he steps out of line.
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