So diappointed...

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[Post New]02/15/2014 08:32
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Anonymous wrote:I disagree with PP. There is nothing admirable in tolerating or going out of your way for rudeness. This is not a martyr worthy situation. Effusive or not, it's rude of them not to be basically welcoming or cordial. My BIL and wife are like that and they are selfish, jealous alcoholics. There is no need for me to go out of my way for them.


I agree with this post. It's martyr-like to continue going out of your way to try to connect with people who make it clear they don't care. You're not doing anyone any favors if you tolerate rudeness.
[Post New]02/15/2014 21:56
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Op here- You are all right. We have decided to stop putting forth effort towards having a relationship. We hope someday they will come to their senses... Until then, it is what it is.
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