do you go bra-less at home when you have guests?

[Anonymous]

I only go braless at home or at my sister's house. I would never do it if there was someone visiting my house.

[Anonymous]

Hell, I don't go bra-less at home when I *don't* have guests. and I'm small-busted. I like to keep the girls contained except when I sleep. (though my bras don't have wire and aren't uncomfortable.)

I have a friend who has a fairly sizable chest and she'll go braless at brunch at restaurants. It's pretty obvious and it makes me uncomfortable for her.

[Anonymous]

All the time when I'm alone or it's just DH and I. I change into PJ pants, a tshirt and no bra as soon as we put the kids to bed. But I wouldn't in front of anyone else. I luckily have perky noobs but I hate the thought of people seeing my nipples poking through.

Years ago, I had a boyfriend whose mom was ALWAYS in thin pajamas and no bra when we'd come over (including instances where she'd invite us over for dinner...) she seemed embarrassed but still did it! I don't get it.

[Anonymous]

I will if I'm wearing a thicker shirt. For instance, I'm wearing a tank with a fleece over it. I would not if my nips were showing. I have a small chest.

[Anonymous]

I hate going bra less. I am not large chested, but not tiny either...probably average.

I even prefer to wear a tank top with a shelf bra to bed--I just feel more supported with that.

[Anonymous]

It always puzzles me that, in this era of plentiful porn, excessive boob jobs, and women who go for the whole stripper/porn star look in their everyday life, that there are all these women who are embarrassed for someone to see the outlines of their natural breasts or that they have nipples.

When I was younger, we showed our nipples, and many of us went braless. Casual nudity was more common in movies--watch some 60s and 70s and even early 80s movies. Even on television you used to see buttocks and people in thong bathing suits, until it all became forbidden. Now nudity and normal parts of bodies like nipples are perversely hidden. And yet people are so jaded about so many sex acts, and women are expected to behave like porn actors.

WTF happened to this freaky country.

[Anonymous]

the rest of the world wears speedos too. Not just the pro swimmers either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It always puzzles me that, in this era of plentiful porn, excessive boob jobs, and women who go for the whole stripper/porn star look in their everyday life, that there are all these women who are embarrassed for someone to see the outlines of their natural breasts or that they have nipples.

When I was younger, we showed our nipples, and many of us went braless. Casual nudity was more common in movies--watch some 60s and 70s and even early 80s movies. Even on television you used to see buttocks and people in thong bathing suits, until it all became forbidden. Now nudity and normal parts of bodies like nipples are perversely hidden. And yet people are so jaded about so many sex acts, and women are expected to behave like porn actors.

WTF happened to this freaky country.

American Taliban.

Tea Party.

Right wing/religious fruitcakes.

Prudishness has been an American trait, though, for a long time ... (see, the Pilgrims).

[Anonymous]

Never. I never go without a bra, like a never nude.

[Anonymous]

I am a DD cup. I don't need to show the world my Nat Geo breasts unleashed other than my husband and young kids.

[Anonymous]

I had a breast lift and was told by my doctor to never go without a bra.

[Anonymous]

Oh hell no. I'd be uncomfortable with my FIL or BIL seeing my jiggly breasts.

[Anonymous]

No, but I might if I had smaller boobs. At a 34F, there is no way I can go without a bra.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I will if I'm wearing a thicker shirt. For instance, I'm wearing a tank with a fleece over it. I would not if my nips were showing. I have a small chest.

+1. Wouldn't do it with a sheer/ white t-shirt, but otherwise, yes.

[Anonymous]

Never, I hate the feeling and the look. I will wear a tank with a built in bra shelf instead of a bra sometimes but I am in one or the other 99% of the time.