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You never have sex with him.
You equate sex with him to rape because you have a low sex drive whilst he has a normal or high sex drive, yet you expect him to remain happily married in celibacy to you for life. You hate him, secretly or openly. He had an affair for the last two years and you didn't even notice. He has asked you for one, and you're genuinely surprised. These are all pulled from recent DCUM threads. I've been married forever, and frankly I'm sometimes amazed that an OPs are still married. |
| Shits the bed and laughs |
| You grow apart. |
but it IS your fault then! |
Well I'm not saying he should have an affair, but 35lbs? I'd be turned off too. Unless you are 6'4", that is a a very hefty amount to gain. |
Wait let me get this right -- 2nd pp believes it is a-ok to effectively end the marriage (by taking up with a prostitute) because the spouse gained 35 pounds. Is that correct? |
Read again. I'd say though that gaining 35lbs, outside of a major medical condition is a pretty bad offense and repulsive to some. |
+1,000 This is a sign, and perhaps more insidious than others mentioned. Like you're going along thinking things are not great but maybe salvageable, and then you realize you can't stand the thought of even touching him. |
. You're a horrid person. |
When your youngest asked your DW.. "Why don't you kiss or hug daddy?" |
^Lame excuse, and choosing to ignore the underlying issues. |