Not the person to whom you are responding, but I was invited to an auction, too, at a school where my child had applied and was later wait listed. Not by a friend - I received an invitation in the mail from the school. I found it odd. No, I did not attend. I didn't send any money, either, on the assumption that it was unlikely that admissions knew about the invitation. If they wanted to know how our family was about giving $$, they could contact our preschool. |
\ And sometimes vice versa. I've seen admissions let a family know early if a younger sibling was not going to be a candidate, especially if, in their opinion, the child seemed to have significant needs that they felt they couldn't meet. |