Not the PP you're responding to but you are woefully ignorant about the neurological basis of executive functioning. Neurotransmitters are involved with executive functioning. The delay in maturation of the frontal lobe results in slower development of executive functioning but the neurotransmitters also have a huge impact. Yes, stimulants may have some impact if used long term but so does everything else we use on a long term basis (What kind of water do you drink? Do you only eat organic?) And, stimulants aren't the only medication used to treat ADHD. It tends to be the most effective but if the side effects aren't tolerable, there are alternatives. I don't think you realize how judgmental your post is. You say you're not anti-meds but you sure sound like it. What's the difference between a 9 year old and a 5 year old if ADHD is negatively affecting his life? If I had a choice, I wouldn't 'do' ADHD to my kid. It may not have been necessary to introduce medication to your DS at an early age but to say parents who use medication with younger kids are "doing" something to them is just out of bounds and uncalled for. Making the decision to medicate isn't easy nor should it be. But the decision should be made on fact, not feelings or unsupported opinion. |
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Can't imagine any "educated" physician would put a 5 year old child on stimulant ADD meds.
Maybe put the adults in his enviornment, in some childhood development classes. |
Big pharma stock? |
We started our son on medication at age 5. He was diagnosed through the NIH study, and medication was recommended by those doctors as well as his psychologist (from a practice well regarded on this forum). We tried diet change, OT, and behaviorial therapy before turning to meds the second half of his kindergarten year. He literally could not function in the classroom, despite numerous interventions and a fabulous teacher who worked very hard with us. The meds turned his (and our) lives around. |
What do you mean by "literally could not function in the classroom"? |
Not the PP you're asking the question of but if you don't know what she means, I highly suspect you're from General Parenting. One of the nice things about this forum is that 'we' already know what she means because we've experienced it or take her word for it. I haven't seen a single thread ever in this forum where someone jumps to recommend medication. Medication is used when other things don't. If you haven't been through it, it's easy to spout the conventional wisdom that ADHD is over-diagnosed and over-medicated. It's not. If you really want to know more about ADHD and are not second guessing parents, I gently suggest you start your own thread. |
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DS tried a few meds at age 5 and we landed on Straterra. He's 6 now. We've seen improvement in focus, ability to sit still, and a little reduction in anxiety. His ability to pay attention in learn has really improved.
No side effects from Straterra. |
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PPs have not mentioned the potential impact on how children feel about themselves. I was anti-med and couldn't see all the signs that my child needed help. The signs started at age 4. We started meds and behavioral therapy at about age 5.5. My personal belief is meds should not be done without some form of therapy- they go hand in hand. But bottom line- while I was trying to find ways to help my child without meds, I resorted to adding meds when he told me before age 6 that he was tired of not being able to behave and didn't "want to be here anymore". I didn't know how painful it was for him, even at an early age, to feel like he couldn't succeed. Meds aren't the complete answer (getting an accurate diagnosis has helped) but meds and therapy definitely got us started on a better road.
Would you deny your child meds for any other condition? |
| My DS started medication at 9 and it took a year to get to the right dose and medication for him but it has made such a huge difference in his life. I could tell he was beginning to feel bad about himself and had been labeled a trouble maker at school. His behavior is 100% better since he started medication and he is doing much better in school. His quality of life has changed for the better. Our family life is much better. I know 5 years old seems young but if your DC is struggling in school and daily life and you have exhausted all other options, you may want to give it a try. My DS has not needed therapy in addition to the medication. He doesn't like taking medication but knows he has to take it. I never, ever forget to give him his dose because I know it will mean the difference between a productive and well behaved day to a stressful day for him and the teachers. Good luck OP but don't hesitate to help your child. |
This question is for 23:08, the NIH parent. Thank you. |
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I am not 23:08, although I could be -- our experiences sound very similar. We started Tenex when he was just over 4, and after the NIH study started stimulants (at that point he had just turned 6). He's a tiny guy, but if he were bigger, we would have tried stimulants sooner.
For us, "could not function in the classroom" means that on day 2 of kindergarten (with an IEP in place) we were asked to change from a mainstreamed classroom with supports to a special ed classroom for kids with emotional disabilities. That even in the special ed class (with wonderful teachers who understand this kind of disability), he was routinely sent to the support room for misbehaving (including running away, hitting, throwing things, pulling the fire alarm). When you aren't in class, you can't learn. If you can't learn, you don't have much of a future. Stimulants have given him back that future. He's happy. He's proud of his accomplishments. The quarter he started meds he came home with a pile of awards for "most improved". He's able to participate in extra curricular activities. He still has support room visits, but they are much less frequent. |
This is the NIH parent. Could not complete the simplest of tasks, handwriting was practically illegible, easily distracted (e.g., looking at birds out the window instead of doing work), could not sit still on the carpet or stay in his chair, very impulsive (e.g., breaking crayons, tossing pencils), periodic verbal altercations with other students when upset. |
| My friend's child too has been on ritalin since 4. He had been kicked out of several daycares and summer camp. Even on ritalin, he was recently kicked out of a private school with small class size. She is transitioning him into public school with an IEP. For severe ADHD, medication at a younger age is an option that should be considered. |
You really need to be with a great who is happy to try diff Medsvand doses tofine the best for your child. |