Advice please. complicated legal issue.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did Internist ever treat your father?

Get a lawyer regardless to deal with dementia issue. Makes no difference is dr or not. More important if she was treating him or not but more importantly when dementia was documented.

Yes. she treated him before the marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Attorney and report to the medical licensing board.

I thought of that but the most guilty one is dead. I have a feeling that they will tell me that there is nothing they can do. This whole thing is so icky.

instead of focusing on the dead one and on your feelings (you are in the health sector, not a laywer it appears), find a good attorney specialized in elder law.

[Anonymous]

Where is this located? I have a great rec for NOVA area.

[Anonymous]

If the internist is plying OP's dad with medicine he doesn't need (or not giving him meds he needs), we have a current, ongoing fraud/crime/what have you.

You could have your dad set up a trust for you/your siblings that his new wife cannot touch but depending on the marriage, the new wife could scream bloody murder.

An elder lawyer can sort through everything; as you say this is a complicated issue.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If the internist is plying OP's dad with medicine he doesn't need (or not giving him meds he needs), we have a current, ongoing fraud/crime/what have you.

You could have your dad set up a trust for you/your siblings that his new wife cannot touch but depending on the marriage, the new wife could scream bloody murder.

An elder lawyer can sort through everything; as you say this is a complicated issue.

Yes, complex and forgot to mention that internist's ex is a lawyer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If the internist is plying OP's dad with medicine he doesn't need (or not giving him meds he needs), we have a current, ongoing fraud/crime/what have you.

You could have your dad set up a trust for you/your siblings that his new wife cannot touch but depending on the marriage, the new wife could scream bloody murder.

An elder lawyer can sort through everything; as you say this is a complicated issue.

Yes, complex and forgot to mention that internist's ex is a lawyer.

So? Go get a lawyer or stop complaining.