I miss him like crazy right now....am re-thinking my decision.

[Anonymous]

Distract yourself OP. It will pass and you'll meet someone better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, you're just pathetic. Your ego really needs that kind of validation? You want to know that he's feeling hurt and that will make you feel better about yourself? Stop playing games and act like an adult.

You decided to put on your Big Girl Panties and now you have to wear them.

Are you the guy who is overseas on assignment, with the wife who is hoarding the insurance money?

[Anonymous]

OP, he is just not that into you. Really.

A guy who really liked you and cared for you would give you some "cooling off" time + contact you within a few days just to see if your feelings changed. If a man truly wants you in his life, he will take the necessary steps to fight for you no matter how you treat him.

Since this guy just took the break-up in stride, I am assuming you two were not exclusive and that he has another girl or girls on the side as back up.

If a man really saw you as a long-term GF, he would have been heart-broken when you ended things.

Move on.....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, he is just not that into you. Really.

A guy who really liked you and cared for you would give you some "cooling off" time + contact you within a few days just to see if your feelings changed. If a man truly wants you in his life, he will take the necessary steps to fight for you no matter how you treat him.

Since this guy just took the break-up in stride, I am assuming you two were not exclusive and that he has another girl or girls on the side as back up.

If a man really saw you as a long-term GF, he would have been heart-broken when you ended things.

Move on.....

+100

when I broke up with my husband after 3 months dating, he tried very hard for a month before we got back together.

[Anonymous]

Is this the same OP who had the free-loading felon living using her? Did she finally kick him to the curb?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, he is just not that into you. Really.

A guy who really liked you and cared for you would give you some "cooling off" time + contact you within a few days just to see if your feelings changed. If a man truly wants you in his life, he will take the necessary steps to fight for you no matter how you treat him.

Since this guy just took the break-up in stride, I am assuming you two were not exclusive and that he has another girl or girls on the side as back up.

If a man really saw you as a long-term GF, he would have been heart-broken when you ended things.

Move on.....

Oh please. Clearly, you've been reading to many harlequin romance novels. A relationship is a two way street, not a John Cusack movie.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, he is just not that into you. Really.

A guy who really liked you and cared for you would give you some "cooling off" time + contact you within a few days just to see if your feelings changed. If a man truly wants you in his life, he will take the necessary steps to fight for you no matter how you treat him.

Since this guy just took the break-up in stride, I am assuming you two were not exclusive and that he has another girl or girls on the side as back up.

If a man really saw you as a long-term GF, he would have been heart-broken when you ended things.

Move on.....

Oh please. Clearly, you've been reading to many harlequin romance novels. A relationship is a two way street, not a John Cusack movie.

+100.

That "if he loved you, he would have...." is a bunch of BS. SHE broke it off - SHE did not want him. He just took her at her word. If he continued to chase her, some of y'all would be calling him a crazy stalker.

IME, if a person tells me that they do not want me and they need to end it....that's all I need to hear. I am not fighting for someone who has clearly told me that they don't want me.

Geez, some of y'all read too many Nicholas Sparks books.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, you're just pathetic. Your ego really needs that kind of validation? You want to know that he's feeling hurt and that will make you feel better about yourself? Stop playing games and act like an adult.

You decided to put on your Big Girl Panties and now you have to wear them.

Are you the guy who is overseas on assignment, with the wife who is hoarding the insurance money?

Nope, not him. The girl needs to be knocked down a peg and get over herself. She's a game player and this guy is much better off not being with her. He dodged a bullet and a lifetime of headaches.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, he is just not that into you. Really.

A guy who really liked you and cared for you would give you some "cooling off" time + contact you within a few days just to see if your feelings changed. If a man truly wants you in his life, he will take the necessary steps to fight for you no matter how you treat him.

Since this guy just took the break-up in stride, I am assuming you two were not exclusive and that he has another girl or girls on the side as back up.

If a man really saw you as a long-term GF, he would have been heart-broken when you ended things.

Move on.....

+100

when I broke up with my husband after 3 months dating, he tried very hard for a month before we got back together.

yeah you showed him

[Anonymous]

Be careful of what you ask for.

[Anonymous]

Allow me to translate into man-speak for you.

He said:

"Okay, so we are done then?"

He was thinking:

“Holy crap is she really breaking up with me?? She had way too many red flags and I was dreading having the breakup conversation with her. I can’t believe I’m getting out of this so easily!!!”

You concurred and he stated "Okay then...Good-bye."

He was thinking:

“Wow! Easiest breakup EVER!”

Sorry, you just pulled the breakup trigger before he was able to.

[Anonymous]

Be strong!! You can do it - stay away. The longing will pass. BTDT.

[Anonymous]

Are you kidding me?!? How old are you OP? You expected him to cry after 2 months? I am embarrassed to be a woman sometimes.

[Anonymous]

This is crazy time.

You broke up with him. He's supposed to beg to get back together with you?

If you want him back, YOU call HIM.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
+100.

That "if he loved you, he would have...." is a bunch of BS. SHE broke it off - SHE did not want him. He just took her at her word. If he continued to chase her, some of y'all would be calling him a crazy stalker.

IME, if a person tells me that they do not want me and they need to end it....that's all I need to hear. I am not fighting for someone who has clearly told me that they don't want me.

Geez, some of y'all read too many Nicholas Sparks books.

Second this!