How about throwing her a shower later on? At three months, it's early. I was very superstitious about getting baby stuff before "viability" - my MIL started buying things and we were like "stop!" So I don't recommend buying baby stuff yet unless you are SURE she wants it now. If she is three months, though, she's nearly out of her first trimester (to PP, seems there's no harm to massages during the first trimester, but places won't do it out of liability concerns due to so many miscarriages happening during that period - they don't want the correlation to seem like causation is what I've always heard). Anyway, after that I'd say you can definitely go for the massage as she can use it in a matter of a week or so. 13/14 weeks is end of first trimester at 3 months that's 12 weeks, right?
Enjoy being pregnant vicariously!
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